Shake it up this summer! Our complete list of kids stuff around the county (and beyond!)

Hi everyone!

School is out, the older kids are in camp, the weather is great, so... what to do with those toddlers? Tired of your September-to-May rut? Shake up your week and take your kids to these great spots in and around Westchester. 

How about...

 

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Museums!

If you haven't been to the Westchester Children's Museum, you're missing out. Open Wednesday to Sunday, this small beacon of educational play (Phase 1 is opened, and an expansion is in the works) is a very pleasant way to spend the day with a little one. Park in the Rye Playland parking lot (which unfortunately costs about $10 during the summer season). If it's a nice day you can take a stroll on the pier and have lunch at the Tiki Bar restaurant next door (and they validate a portion of that pricy Playland parking!).

Or drive a bit farther to either Stepping Stones Museum in Norwalk, CT, the Mid-Hudson Children's Museum in Poughkeepsie or Liberty Science Center in Jersey City, NJ. All are great day trips for little ones.

If you're looking for a museum for you, head to the Bruce Museum in Greenwich, CT. One Wednesday a month they offer stroller tours where loud or crying kids are permitted. The Katonah Museum of Art also offers a stroller tour one Friday a month. 

Right on our doorstep is the Hudson River Museum in Yonkers. It's located next to a park with free ample parking and a cozy outdoor plaza to hang out or picnic in. It's not 100% babyproofed, but it's easy to stroll around in and as long as your keep your little ones in arms reach (no knocking down priceless statues like that kid in Kansas!), they'll love walking around. Our children's favorite section is the Hudson Riverama, a "hands-on environmental teaching gallery" where they can push buttons, pull levers, and touch the exhibits to their hearts' delight. There's also a planetarium with child-themed shows in the afternoon. There are recurring family events, so check the calendar on their website.

Or head outside to Wave Hill in Riverdale and see the gardens. For a larger, more fun day trip (on a cooler day), head to Storm King Art Center in New Windsor.

Want a museum that's not so...museumy? Head down to the Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum on Manhattan's West Side. Board a 1940s aircraft carrier that houses a space shuttle, a Concorde airplane, and a submarine, among other exhibits.

Don't forget to check with your local library before you plan your trip. Many of the branches have museum passes available to borrow. 

 

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Parks & Playgrounds!

It's swim season in the Westchester parks! Get ready to swim with your parks pass and/or swim pass! Here's how it works: For $75, you can get a Westchester County Adult 3-year pass, which lets you and up to 4 adults and 5 children guests into parks where passes or admission fees are required. It also gives you discount admission and parking to several of the county park's parking lots and water parks.

For example, at Tibbetts Brook Pool, a park pass gets you $8 admission instead of $15, and discounts in the parking lot. Or if you plan to swim all summer, you can get a season swim pass for $125 per year, which allows you free admission and parking at Glen Island Beach, Saxon Woods Pool, Tibbetts Brook Pool, and Wilson's Woods Pool. Kids under 5 are free, so do the math before you shell out for a $300 family swim pass.

However, if you're only planning to drop in one or two times and everyone with you is under 5, you might just want to bring proof of residency and pay a la carte. A resident fee at Tibbetts Brook Pool is $15, and the little ones are free. (Or ask a small group in line if you can be their guest for the day!) Going without a pass costs more per visit if you are a frequent visitor, but if you just want to drop in once or twice, it will save you money in the long run, plus the hassle of getting passes.

The Greenburgh Nature Center in Scarsdale has a great natural-wood playground, shaded hiking trails, and animals to see, plus it's free to play and walk around. They also feature regular kids programming for a small fee.

Or you can go playground hopping. The Facebook page Playgrounds in Westchester has photos and reviews of several play spots around the county. Look one up and go on a pilgrimage. Some of our favorite playgrounds are Jack's Friendship Garden in New Rochelle, Harbor Island playground in Mamaroneck, Hyatt Field and it's superfun zip line and outdoor adult exercise machines in Scarsdale, the Kensico Dam playground and running/walking paths in Valhalla, and Gedney Park in Chappaqua. Find your favorite and report back to us!

 

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Step Outside!

It's pretty amazing that we live 15 minutes away from the best zoo in the country (and maybe even the world). The Bronx Zoo is a great way to spend a summer day, especially since the zoo tram and ropes course are now open. If you're looking for something with a little less walking, the Beardsley Zoo in Norwalk or the Central Park Zoo are two smaller-scale spots to see animals.

Zoo too much? Head to Muscoot Farm in Katonah for a free peek at plenty of farm animals. Or Stone Barns in Pocantico Hills has free admission to the grounds on the weekdays, and plenty of children's programming. Or visit the Greenburgh Nature Center for some more offbeat animals like owls, ferrets, and snakes.

Or take a hike at the Rockefeller State Park Preserve in Pleasantville, the Kensico Dam in Valhalla, or Croton Gorge Park in Croton-on-Hudson. All are free or under $10 a car, are kid-friendly in length (or bring the jogging stroller) and are scenic.

 

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Beaches!

Let's pull on our rash gards, lather up the sunscreen, throw on hats and sunglasses, and get some (safely-filtered) sun! Where to go? Compo Beach in Westport is popular with the mom squad. It's got a great beach on the Long Island Sound, which is tamer (read: more child friendly) than the ocean. It's also got a playground and a place to get snacks. Bring your wallet though, we've heard parking can be as much as $65 on the weekends. But load up the minivan with your favorite swimmers and it's not a bad deal. There's no other admission charge.

Glen Island Beach in New Rochelle is part of the Westchester Parks system. If you don't have a parks pass, admission is $10, but children under 5 are free. Parking is another $10 without the Parks pass. It was originally developed as a summer resort in the 1920s, but now is a public beach with plenty of picnic spots.

Oakland Beach in Rye is near Rye Playland. If you don't have a resident permit, the cost to head there on the weekend is $20 per car and $15 per person for access to the beach, but kids 12 and under are free. Parking and access is $5 cheaper on the weekday.

Cove Island Park in Stamford has swimming on the Sound, a snack shack, a playground, picnic areas, and a running path. It's free to get in, but parking is about $50 per car. 

Harbor Island Park in Mamaroneck has a beach and kids splash zone. Parking is $10 a car on the weekend, and access to the beach and spray ground costs about $3 for kids 3-12 and $7 for everyone else. 

Croton Point Park Beach in Croton-on-Hudson is one of the few up-county places to go. It's quaint and on the less expensive side. $4 for adults, and kids under 5 are free. Parking is about $10 without a Parks pass.

And the true sun professionals head out to Long Beach Island in New Jersey. They love the beaches, the shore towns, the boardwalks, the nightlife, the kid-friendly activities, and the lodging options.

It's not a beach, but the Playland Pool is a public pool open to nonresidents. Entry is $6 for an adult, and kids under 5 swim free. Parking is about $10.

 

Amusement Parks!

It's not summer without a trip to the amusement park. Pack a (soft) cooler and head out for a daytrip or overnight at Sesame Place (see our insider tipsDorney Park in Allentown PA, Dutch Wonderland in Lancaster PA, Land of Make Believe in Hope NJ, Hershey Park in Hershey PA, Crayola Experience in Easton PA, Thomas Land inside Edaville Family Theme Park in Carver, MA or Diggerland construction theme park in West Berlin, NJ.

And there's another one nearby...what's it called? Playland Park? Rye Playland is a quaint amusement park that's a quick drive and easy on the wallet. Try their $15 family nights, or Westchester County residents who aren't planning to go on any of the rides can walk around for free with the Spectator wristband. 

The Kiddieland section is great for the little ones, but we've found kids taller than 36" hit the sweet spot, since many rides in Kiddlieland can't hold adults so your little one has to be big enough to go alone. We're excited to take our short 3.5 year old, who clocks in at 36.25", to the park this season so she can finally experience all of Kiddieland.

Want something close to home that's a bit wetter? Splashdown Beach in Fishkill is "America's Biggest Little Water Park". For $30-$35 each, you can experience the wave pool, the lazy river, the splash zone, tons of slides and a wading pool.

These next entries aren't amusement parks, per se, but amusement resorts like Kalahari in the Poconos are a great time in the summer as well as the winter. Kalahari just completed construction on their outdoor waterpark, or skip the sunscreen and weather worries and stay indoors in their 80-degree shaded indoor waterpark. In that category there's also Great Wolf Lodge, Camelback, and Rocking Horse Ranch.

Or bring the kids to Mohonk Mountain House and experience summer camp for the whole family. They have a lake, tennis courts, horseback riding, kids programming, and a spa for Mommy's Time Out. Smuggler's Notch in Vermont also has loads of family-friendly activities for a week or weekend away.

Club Getaway in Kent, CT also has family camp. Lodge in their rustic cabins and send the kids off with the camp counselors while you enjoy a dip in the lake, hiking, archery, the zipline, or just a plain old nighttime dance party (drink in hand optional!)

 

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Orchards! 

Nothing says summer like fresh fruit picked ripe off the vine. Luckily there are plenty of Pick-Your-Own Orchards a short drive from Westchester. Just make sure to call ahead as crop yields and picking hours vary. You don't want to drive all that way and come back with an empty fruit container. Bring a jogging stroller or wagon for the kids, as you'll do a lot of walking over uneven terrain. 

Fishkill Farms in Hopewell Junction has daily picking from 9am to 5pm.

Ochs Orchard in Warwick has a cash-only PYO are that is open Wednesday through Sunday.

Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard is trying out a PYO day on July 14. Pay $5 per person admission that includes a hayride (children 3 andunder are free). Then it's $10 per quart of blueberries. If you haven't been to Harvest Moon in the fall, it's worth a trip. They are known for Apple Cider donuts, live entertainment on the weekends, and their Hard Apple Cider.

Our favorite no-frills pick is Ellsworth Hill Orchard and Berry Farm. Located in Sharon, CT, they are open every day and have delicious fruit that is grown without pesticides. They are also cash only.

 

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Take the train! 

Hop on Metro-North, where getting there is half the fun (unless you're late for work, of course!). Head into New York City for a daytrip that starts at Grand Central Station. Then walk west to Bryant Park for lunch and a ride on the carousel. Or head uptown to the Central Park Zoo and the Victorian Gardens Amusement Park in Central Park. Head crosstown to the American Museum of Natural History and the Children's Museum of Manhattan or downtown to the Children's Museum of the Arts on Charlton Street and the new Seaglass Carousel.

Easily accessible via train, the New York Botanical Garden is a great trip with kids. Or take them out to the ballgame at Yankee Stadium. Some scheduled games have trains that go to the stadium directly from your home station.

Or stay intra-county for these fun destinations just steps from a platform:

The village of Bronxville is a shopper's delight! Load em in the stroller and head to Value Drugs for a great toy selection at every price point (and they take Bed Bath & Beyond coupons!). Then check out Silver Spoon and Adrian East for adorable kids clothes and gifts. Don't forget Candy Rox for their sugar fix, or head to Topps Bakery for their gorgeous decorated sugar cookies and my favorite treat: the Marigold, which is a cross between a cupcake and a black and white cookie. Yum! If you want a more substantial lunch, head to Lange's Delicatessen for a sandwich, or go on a Tuesday afternoon and hit up Pete's Park Place Tavern, where kids eat free Tuesdays between 4pm and 7pm.

Go up to Valhalla and have lunch at Valhalla Crossing restaurant. Sit in their Presidential Train car and watch the commuters fly past. Then head across the street to the Village Creamery & Sweet Shop for one of the county's best ice cream cones. It's a 5-minute walk from there to the playground at the Kensico Dam Plaza.

Or head to Larchmont station with its ample shopping. Hit up Pink on Palmer for gotta-have-it housewares and beauty products, then let the kids loose at Three Goms and the Corner Store. Take a break at The Voracious Reader, a bookstore and cafe. The board book types can relax in the Bitty Baby reading zone. If they're in the mood for something sweet, Larchmont is the home to the Longford's Ice Cream, another best in county, or for something lighter try Red Mango. The candy store Sweets will delight even the most finicky of dessert eaters. For an easy lunch or dinner, there's MOOYAH Burgers, Fries & Shakes. Cap it off with a short walk to the Pine Brook Park playground. 

On the Hudson Line? Head up to Tarrytown! Start with a scoop from Lighthouse Ice Cream Kompany, right next to the train station (or maybe mommy gets a quick glass of rosé from Rivermarket Bar and Kitchen.) Walk west to the splash zone at Pierson Park, or head east up the hill into town. The Taco Project and Main Sweet Sweets will satisfy your little nibblers, or have a more expansive sit-down at Mint Premium Foods or Lefteris Gyro. Take a 5-minute walk around the corner to the Warner Library and hang out in their large children's area. Then hit up the playground at Patriot's Park next door. Support local business at A NU Toy Store, which sells new and used toys and hosts local author readings and events. With a little planning, you can time your outing to catch a family-friendly show at the Tarrytown Music Hall.

 

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Rainy Day Fun!

Don't let a little weather keep you home! The play areas at the Westchester Mall, the Stamford Mall, and the Jefferson Valley Mall are perfect to blow off a little steam while mommy gets some retail therapy.

The Play Place in Elmsford is also an easy spot to drop by anytime. Their play area has different zones, so you can relax with your crawler in the baby space while the toddler goes bananas in the climbing structire.

The Palisades Mall is one of my favorites for an errands-and-fun combo. Mommy gets Target, Bed Bath & Beyond, and DSW, Junior gets Billy Beez, the Palisades Climb SkyTykes, and the mall's own Ferris Wheel and Carousel.

LEGOland in Ridge Hill has Toddler Tuesdays every Tuesday morning, and Rockin' Jump in Ridge Hill and Mount Kisco both offer toddler jump times. Bounce U has open bounce slots during most afternoons. FunFuzion in New Rochelle has bowling, mini-golf, and arcade games.

Or check out the open gym schedules of World Cup in Chappaqua, The Little Gym in Scarsdale, Kidville in Mount Kisco, Gymcats in Yonkers, Gymboree in Scarsdale, My Gym in Dobbs Ferry or Mamaroneck, Kids in Sports in Scarsdale, Jodi's Gym in Mount Kisco, Great Play in Scarsdale, Kids U in Pleasantville or Port Chester or, Gymtime Place in Scarsdale. Or take a free trial class at any one of those mentioned.

Is your kid more the creative type than the athletic type? Check out the drop in hours at Scribble Art Workshop in Dobbs Ferry.

I hope this list motivates you to get out there this summer and have a blast!

That's it for this week! As always, check our website for events. And if you like what you're reading, help keep the computer screen on by following us on Facebook or Instagram and signing up for our weekly emails at BabyGotChat.com. 

See you next time!

Andrea


 

 

Help local kids at the Presents From Heaven Toy Drive! Plus, 2 new kid-friendly pizza spots

Hi everyone! Summer's in full swing, and we have two of your favorite things: pizza and helping children. Hungry yet? Me too! But let's start with doing something good for sick kids...

Presents!

Presents From Heaven Toy Drive to Benefit Kids at Maria Fareri Children's Hospital

With so much sad kid stuff in the news, we've all been feeling a little powerless to make the lives of needy kids better. One local mom named Angela Pavlovic is leading a drive to bring toys to the patients at Maria Fareri Children's Hospital in Valhalla. This is the second year she's organized this gift-giving event in memory of her son, Lukas, who lost his battle to pediatric cancer shortly before his second birthday. I have a soft spot for Maria Fareri since my son spent a week there when he was a newborn. 

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Kids who are staying at Maria Fareri Children's Hospital are admitted with everything from cuts and scrapes to terminal illness, but the drive focusses on the longterm inpatients who are seeking treatment for serious illnesses. The drive, which runs until July 26, is focussed on collecting toys to hand out to kids at Maria Fareri during the month of September. September is Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month, and September 1st would have been Lukas's third birthday.

Want to help? It's super easy. Angela has created an Amazon Wishlist for you to shop off, or send an iTunes or Amazon gift card, which are strongly encouraged due to the wide age range of the children. Play-Doh, LEGOs and coloring books are also high priority items. But Angela wants to emphasize that any toys or donations you have would be welcome with open arms. The kids will be so happy with whatever you have to give.

Since the toys are going to a hospital, there's just one restriction: All toys must be new, unused, and unopened.

If you have a donation in hand and would like to arrange delivery, please email me at info@babygotchat.com for delivery info. Otherwise, if you order via the Amazon Wishlist, the item will be sent directly to Angela for distribution at the hospital in September.

I can't imagine anything harder than losing a child, and Angela and her family's braveness in this time of terrible sorrow, their dedication to staying involved with the hospital that cared for their son, and their eagerness to improve the lives of other kids facing similar battles is one of the most noble and heartwarming (but also, I'm totally crying) acts I can imagine.

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Her wish in organizing this annual drive is to Help us create more smiles and spread more awareness so no other parent has to wonder 'What if?'

She also urges everyone to share this drive with friends, family, and neighbors. Help us keep Lukas’s memory alive and spread joy to small children fighting big battles! Click here to share the fundraiser on Facebook.

Click here to shop for gifts to donate.

 

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Pizza!

Two new family friendly pizza places have opened recently. Both serve thin crust pizzas that kids will love. First up, Colony Grill.

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Colony Grill in Port Chester

We LOVE Colony. My family has been ordering from Colony Grill in their original Stamford location since I could say the word pizza—and it's been a major craving ever since. They've opened a few locations north of Stamford, but they've never ventured into the 914.

Until now! We had the pleasure to visit on grand opening night with our two toddlers in tow. We weren't the only family with the same idea, but luckily Colony Grill has tons of high chairs for the little ones and booths to keep the bigger-but-wriggly ones contained. Their menu is simple: Pizza with specialty toppings. Their thin crust pie is thin but not puny. One personal pizza will fill you up, or leave some on your plate and have a slice or two for later. 

There's even outdoor seating right on the water for some boat-watching, which would sound great if we could ever get a day below 95 degrees.

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Our pizza was delicious, the kids loved it too! It tasted just like the original. I'm already planning my next trip.

 

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The Rex Pizza & Lobster in Hartsdale

This thin crust pie and lobster roll pizza restaurant opened a few weeks ago. A sister restaurant to The Rex Burger & Lobster in Mineola, this menu is a bit more cosmopolitan than Colony Grill's menu of Pizza One Way With Toppings. The pies at Rex come in two categories: white and red. Start with your base, then choose from six combinations...or go rogue and make your own. If you're not in the mood for pizza, there's tons more on the menu including lobster rolls, sandwiches, salads, and more. The pies are smaller and thinner than the ones at Colony, perfect to order a few and share.

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The restaurant is located in Hartsdale on Central Avenue in a shopping center near Trader Joe's, CVS, and Bareburger, which means easy parking, and possibly even getting an errand done after your meal. The modern interior is open and kid-friendly. We stopped by their grand opening party and tried the lobster roll (yum!), plain pizza (yum yum!) and the meatball and ricotta pizza (yum yum yum!). 

Did I mention it has wine on tap? The only thing these two restaurants are missing is kids eat free nights! We're working on it (and if you go there ask about it too!)

 

That's it for this week! As always, check our website for events. And if you like what you're reading, help keep the computer screen on by following us on Facebook or Instagram and signing up for our weekly emails at BabyGotChat.com.

See you next time!

Andrea


 

 

How To Get To Sesame Place, Part 2: Win In The Park With These Tips

Hi everyone!

Welcome to Part 2 of our Sesame Street series! In Part 1, (click here if you missed it) we told you how to get in for cheap (or free!). Now that you're ready to play, here's how to make the best of your sunny day! 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

 

Sesame Place Expert Tips: Inside the Park

 

What's the perfect age to bring them?

This answer depends on your kid. If you're only going to bring them once, a very-mobile age 2 is great. They'll have watched enough TV to know who Elmo is (and will probably be close to the apex of their Elmo obsession.) and they'll be able to go on almost every ride. There are a few faster "coasters" and swings that they won't be tall enough for, but almost everything else in the park and waterpark will be fair game. Earlier than age 2, and they can't experience most of the rides, and later on they don't freak out as much about Elmo, so a bit of that magic is missing. At any age it's a fun amusement park that's not too big, not too small, and best of all--no bratty teenagers! Or childfree people relaxing and having fun (the worst, amirite?).

Start off on the right foot: How to walk in with no line, no drama, and full bellies

It takes us an hour and forty minutes to go from Westchester to Langhorne, Pennsylvania, which is just long enough for everyone in a car seat to get hungry and grumpy. Who wants to pull them out of the car and directly into a long line for security and admission, then more hot lines to get a glimpse of their favorite characters?

Skip all that and have a #winning morning by booking a character breakfast. At $25 a head per adult—before season passholder discount—it's a little pricy, but the amount of problems it solves is worth every penny. (Or you can do what we do and bring extra tin foil and tupperware and take out enough food and dessert items for a lunch picnic in the park). 

Here's why breakfast with Elmo is the best: You get to walk into the park an hour early, way before the lines queue up. You get to take those groggy kids out of the car and stick food in front of their faces in a comfortable indoor space, so that when they are actually let loose in the park an hour later, they aren't hot and weary.

The buffet is no Ritz-Carlton. It's very basic breakfast food, fountain sodas and juices, and cupcakes and cookies (cue the tin foil!). But it's all the stuff kids will eat. Elmo sets up shop in one corner and during the hour you can go visit with him as many times as you like and take pictures, or let the staff take pictures for you. While you're eating, other Sesame Street characters will come by your table to say hello. They don't guarantee anyone but Elmo, but the last time we were there, we were visited by Bert, Ernie, Zoe, Cookie Monster, The Count, and Abby. Big Bird tends not to be there. Maybe because of ceiling height?

Having an hour to relax, unwind, and fill up before you head out into the park is amazing, and since they've met almost every character, you don't have to wait in the long lines at the meet-and-greet stations. Our little one visited Elmo three times during breakfast and was so excited to be able to be around him for more than the few seconds you get at the meet-and-greets. And once it's over you get to be among the first in the park to hit the rides. 

If getting there early's not your thing, you can also book lunch and dinner character dines. Our kids are so little we can't ensure they'll actually make it to lunch or dinner and be in a good mood, plus those are $5 more per person. 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

 

Need more one-on-one time with Elmo?

Those character dines can fill up fast! One fall weekend we were too slow to prebook and breakfast on the day we were visiting was sold out. I panicked—my kid was at prime Elmo-loving age, which unfortunately coincides with the age they can't wait in a line for more than 4 seconds without darting. I needed a golden ticket to Elmo!

The customer service agent suggested an Elmo The Musical VIP Meet-and-Greet. $75 for ten minutes with Elmo, Cookie, and the dancing chickens might sound crazy, but once we got into the details, it didn't seem so bad. Hear us out! First of all, our party of 6 was about to shell out $125 for the character breakfast. so for $50 bucks less we could all eat yogurt in the car on the way there. We get a private meet-and-greet, which means she gets the characters all to herself for ten minutes (which is probably as long as her attention span anyway).

There's a professional photographer taking pictures which are included in the cost. Actually, the $75 includes a single day Photo Key with unlimited downloads so any pictures you get in the park later are also free. That's a $50 value. We also got VIP admission to the Elmo the Musical Show. 

This isn't something I'd do every time, but if you're splitting with friends (for ten minutes you could even split it multiple ways and have one grownup come in with five kiddos), and want to take advantage of the Photo Key day pass, it's not a bad deal.

 

I'm at the front gate! What can I bring?

Sesame Place has a lenient policy towards things you can bring in. They allow soft coolers up to 10" x 10" x 12" and drinks and snacks. They don't allow booze or glass containers, or hard plastic coolers. They also don't allow "picnic lunches" but we've brought in plastic containers of strawberries, goldfish, granola bars, pouches, a diet coke can, water bottles, milk, baby formula, etc., and it was fine.

You can bring strollers, wagons, life vests for the water park (though they have their own for free), even a pack n play (for that cabana rental?).

 

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So what should I bring?

This is more of a gray area. We like to be prepared, so our list might be a bit longer. Sesame Place is small, so if your child can walk longer distances, you might not need a stroller. We brought our sit-and-stand tandem stroller and our 3.5 year old barely needed to hop on the kickboard for a ride. You can't bring your stroller into the shows and it can only get so close to you at the water park, so keep in mind you'll have to be constantly ditching it.

You'll want a non-valuables diaper bag that you can leave in the stroller with a change of clothes, some snacks, and other stuff you don't need to have with you at all times. We've never worried about theft at Sesame Place, but we're careful not to leave any valuables in our stroller. If you're visiting the water park, a waterproof necklace phone case that you put some cash and a credit card in will be the perfect thing to stay safe on the lazy river. And you can take photos through the plastic! If you're visiting in the fall, a small crossbody bag of valuables will do the job.

Kids meals come with souvenir plates and cups. Bring some empty grocery bags to hold them. You may also want to bring tin foil or a tupperware container for any lunch food they don't finish. Those extra fries may come in handy an hour later when they are hungry again.

If you're visiting the water park, your packing list will be a bit more extensive. Water shoes are recommended, and diaper-wearing kids who need to be in swim diapers at all the water rides (though we never saw anyone checking butts). You'll want to bring a bag for all the wet stuff, and some towels. Don't forget the hats and sunscreen! There's not a lot of shade to be found.

Bring refillable water cups. You'll be able to get ice at the concession stands, and there are water fountains located around the park. 

You may want to anticipate your kids' impulse buy demands and bring toys or snacks that you can substitute for the high-priced items they'll see in the park. Our daughter always begs for popcorn and lollipops, so we try to bring our own.

Bring a few reusable bags and a stroller clip in case you go shopping. The park hands out paper bags, which do not mix well with wet towels or sippy cups. Plus if you have to ditch your stroller, it's not shouting NEW MERCHANDISE INSIDE!

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

 

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Where to start? Water park or theme park? 

Once you get inside the gates, you can go left for the water park attractions or right for the theme park attractions. There are two schools of thought on this. If your kids like specific rides, and those lines fill up quickly, you may want to head straight for the amusement park side. But keep in mind you're going to get hot and sweaty pretty quickly.

If your kids are like mine and only like the rides with little to no lines, and can turn from having-a-blast to get-me-out-here in five minutes, you may want to start with the water park. That way everyone can stay cool and run around until they get tired. Then you can get them changed before meltdowns happen. Have a quick lunch, then hit the amusement park side. When they go from hero to zero, they'll already be dressed, fed, and ready to leave. You can make a quick exit. You may get sweaty again walking around theme park, but at least you'll have the sweet salvation of an air-conditioned car to look forward to. 

 

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All about the parades

Theme park parades always seem to have a cult following. Be it Disney World or Sesame Place, you'll see people sitting along the route hours before the parade. We've heard they are fun, but we have two impatient, easy-to-overheat toddlers, and sitting on a blanket in the sun while nothing happens is the opposite of what they can tolerate.

Sesame Place parade viewers are a more chill bunch than Disney, however (we once got scolded by a Disney parade fanatic who wanted their spot in the shade by the fence to include the entire ten feet of lawn in front of them, too). It seems like there are a lot of spots to get a great view. But if you don't want to wait, for $20 a head, you can buy your way in to the Reserved Parade Viewing Area. Just select the date and time online before you go, and you'll get your own priority viewing area. Keep in mind THAT area is first-come-first-served, so if you want to be in the front of the front, you still have to arrive early.

For sale along the parade routes are bubble machines, light-up wands, and all sorts of toys that are both expensive and tantrum-inducing. Ward off a case of the gimmes by bringing your own small bubbles or some glow sticks. Spending $2 ahead of time can spare you $20 later. The same goes for sweet treats. If you bring a small lollipop for the afternoon meltdown, you won't be guilted into buying a $5 huge one later on.

 

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Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

Try out the shows

There are usually three different variety shows that repeat daily throughout the park. They are short with open seating, and they are a great way to find out if your kid can handle a show before you shell out for Disney Live tickets at the County Center. If they melt down, it's easy to head out. And if they love it, well, there are shows every hour. Have fun! 

 

Where to refill

If you buy one of those all-you-can-drink cups and the lines are long at the concessions stands, you'll want to seek out a self-service refill station. There is one inside Cookie's Sometimes/Anytime Food Market. There's also one on the upper level of Cookie's Cafe, but sometimes it's turned off. All the self-serve refill beverage areas have water, and the staff is chill about you refilling kiddie cups with water and ice. There are also a few water fountains around the park.

 

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The best place to eat

There are a lot more dining options in the summer, when Captain Ernie's Bistro and Grover's Island grille open up. The two main eateries are Emo's Eatery, with what they call "modified table service" (think Panera) and Cookie's Cafe, which operates like a buffet line. We find it the most mellow to eat at the upstairs mezzanine at Cookie's Cafe, which is roomy and never gets too full. There's an elevator to get your stroller up and plenty of high chairs. 

 

Free shuttles to the park!

If you don't want to deal with the $20 parking fee and are planning an overnight stay, several local hotels offer free shuttle service to and from the park. Just be sure to ask about the hours. If you booked a character breakfast, they might not be able to bring you into the park an hour early. Click here for the list of hotels with shuttles. 

 

Unlimited refills: a good deal? Depends on the alternative

On the season passholders preview day, we visited the park and picked up an unlimited beverage and popcorn bucket good for free refills until the end of 2018. When we had one kid, this wouldn't have made a lot of sense. We packed the cooler with some diet cokes and brought our own snacks. Then we'd hit up a drivethru on the way home for some caffeine for the adults. But two kids means double the stuff and double the breaks (ours like to tandem tantrum), and in the summer with towels, suits, and water shoes, you have even less room in the stroller to pack a soft cooler with enough in it to make everyone happy. There's no way we can avoid in-park purchases unless we turn ourselves into (sweaty) pack rats. We gave up.

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$53 later we had popcorn and drinks for everyone all day long until 2019. Getting the refills takes up time because you have to stand in line for the popcorn (see above for where to DIY your soda refills), but we can get the kids juice, ourselves soda, and everyone can snack on fresh popcorn all day long. It was a life saver right after the water park when we had to get everyone dry and dressed before lunch. The popcorn bucket kept them happy till we could get into an air conditioned cafe. And the beverage bucket kept the adults perky and hydrated all day long. Soda, juice, and water are about $3.50 and popcorn is about $5. So in two trips this has already paid for itself. If you want the convenience of fresh food and drink on command, go for it. Otherwise you can totally make a soft cooler and bag of snacks work for 1/5th the cost, especially if you plan to visit less than five times.

 

Changing tables and changing rooms

Sesame Place has both. There are changing tables in every bathroom, but these can get busy...for the women's side. If hubs can step up and change the baby in the park, he'll have no wait and near-immaculate amenities (this trick works in almost every public venue). I can't count how many times my husband has returned from changing the baby in public and said "I think I was the first person ever to use that changing table." Meanwhile the line for the one women's room table is out the door. Tell him you'll pay him back by changing your fair share once you get home. 

If you're doing the waterpark with more than one kid and one adult, pack each child their own changing bag with fresh diaper/underwear, wipes, clothes, and towel, so you and your partner can split up and save time in the changing room. It can take forever to take turns, passing the one changing bag back and forth between you. 

 

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Express pass your ice cream

There's only a few places to get ice cream in the park, and once the day heats up, the lines can be pretty long. Plus the portions (and prices) are large. Skip all that by heading to to Mr. Hooper's Emporium and finding the ice cream cooler next to the cash register in the middle of the store. It's not fresh soft-serve, but you'll find kid-friendly pre-wrapped ice cream treats and you'll be in and out before you can say "Ice cream cookie sandwich".

 

Character meet-and-greets: tips and tricks

There are two designated meet-and-greet spots. 1-2-3 Smile With Me! is a tented area with one line for two sides, each side containing one character. When you arrive at the park, grab a map and flip it over to see the times and places for your favorite characters. You may want to show up a few minutes early, as the lines can fill up quickly. Bring your stroller unless you have the most obedient, still-standing kid. 

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Sesame Neighborhood is an area of the park that's outdoors and mostly unshaded. If you're waiting in the area, be sure to bring hats and sunscreen. 

There will be "professional" (read: college students with Nikons) photographers taking photos of you, but you can absolutely take your own photos. Just coach your kids to look at Mommy's phone so all your shots don't feature them looking left or right at the other camera. The photographers can be friendly about taking pictures with your phone if you want to be in it, but I usually ask the people in front of or behind me if we can team up to get a picture of the whole fam. If you go with the photographers' photos, you'll have to buy them later at about $20 a pose or $50 for the whole day, but as I wrote last week, it's not a great deal. Click here to read last week's post and see why.

Additional characters not listed on the map also roam around the parks in the sections labelled "Sesame Plaza" and "Sesame Neighborhood." In the fall and winter, the waterpark areas are re-designated as character meet-and-greet areas, so you can see more characters in less time if you visit after the summer. Of course, you can see everyone if you wait for the parade, but you won't be able to stop them for a photo. Shows are another fun way to see the characters from a comfortable position, but they won't hang around afterward for photos.

Our favorite way to see most of the characters (as we mentioned above), is to book a "Dine with Elmo & Friends" meal. 

 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

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What's the deal with Julia?

Sesame Place's newest character is Julia, a "sweet and curious 4-year-old with Autism". Read all about her here. Julia made her debut in the park last season, and on TV Elmo and friends learn about how Julie does things, “in a Julia sort of way.” Julie is around the park for character meet and greats, but keep in mind she does stay true to character the entire time. We went with two over-eager 3 year olds and were held back from taking a picture with Julia because the kids were too ramped up. Julia's handler made sure we were calm and approached her gently and without too much noise. If kids are noisy, Julia and her handler move to a corner to wait it out till everyone calms down.

If you have a child who is too young to modify their behavior in a stimulating setting, you may want to focus on the other Sesame Street friends, but with a little pep talk, most kids will be just fine taking a photo. Meeting Julia at Sesame Place is a great way for kids to learn about empathy and how their behavior can affect others. Click here for more info. 

 

Seek out the new sensory friendly services

Sesame Place has recently become a Certified Autism Center, meaning that their team members receive training sensory awareness and other issues. While the entire experience of the amusement park might not be sensory friendly to every child, they have worked to develop a IBCCES Sensory Guide which provides insight on how a child with sensory processing issues may be affected by each sense for rides and attractions. You can enroll your child in the Ride Accessibility Special Access Program which allows them priority access on rides, and download their Ride Accessibility Guide

Guides with sensory needs are also encourage to check out two new Quiet Rooms installed in the park, or borrow Noise-Cancelling Headphones, available at The Family Care Center or Welcome Center.

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

 

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See you next time!

Andrea


Spotlight: Hoff-Barthelson Music School is perfect for preschoolers

Hi everyone!

I love kids music classes! When they're newborns, it's a great way to get out of house and meet likeminded moms. When they are toddlers, it's the perfect place for them to expend some energy and develop their coordination. But for so many parents, the music stops at 3 years old. Just because they've outgrown the mommy and me class they loved so much doesn't mean their musical education has to end. The preschool years are an optimal time to take in the building blocks of rhythm, explore more sophisticated instruments, and learn the language of music. 

Hoff-Barthelson Music School in Scarsdale offers every level of instruction from mommy and me to adult. For the preschool set, drop-off classes begin as early as age three and focus on instrument playing, singing, and learning to write and read music.

 

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Class 1: Exploring the Instruments

We visited one recent Saturday to get a glimpse into the world of specialized music classes. We first arrived at Getting to Know You: Exploring the Instruments For Threes, Fours, Fives and Kindergarten, taught by Danielle Miller and Yukiko Konishi. This class is hailed as a precursor to private instruction, and it's a great launchpad to pique a child's interest in and understanding of instruments.

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Like all Hoff-Barthelson programs, (click here for our article about their Mommy and Me classes), listening and etiquette are an integral part of the instruction. At the start of class, children remove their shoes and wait to be called onto the rug. The teacher plays a game where she sings out a color, and if the child is wearing that color, they're invited to take their spot on the carpet by the piano. Kids stay seated and quiet when needed during instruction. They learn to move in a group as cued by the music, or, when it's their turn, let their star shine bright with a solo song or instrument part. 

Since the children in this class were almost school age, the music played for them is more complex. Gone are the staccato solo notes of the baby version of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. They've been replaced by a more musically detailed arrangement.

They also learn to make a song their own. Instead of singing the alphabet song with its traditional lyrics, children were encouraged to suggest different syllables or words to sing to. Rather than A B C, they sang "Bug Bug Bug" (to their delight!). When one student raised her hand to pick the next sound, she realized she hadn't thought of something, and a weak "ummm..." escaped her lips. What followed was a rousing rendition of the alphabet song to "Um Um Um Um..."

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This week's instrument exploration was the piano led by special guest presenter Glen Kirchoff. The kids hovered around the grand piano and got to see its inner workings, examining piano parts and keys as they learned how the machine makes sound. They saw, touched, heard, and even smelled the piano pieces as they were passed around the circle. 

Since they had learned about the workings of the piano, their teacher wanted them to see it in action. She chose a piece that shows off the breadth of sound a piano can make.

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Cued by their teacher singing instructions to stand up, the children circled the room, creating their own dances to a fragment of the arrangement Carnival of the Animals. They became swans and elephants, they danced a lively can-can, then were challenged to dance the can-can again--this time as a turtle would, slow and drawn out. They were excited to race around the room, but they do so noiselessly, as they've learned that talking and listening are at cross-purposes: the teacher's cues for the fun were nestled inside the music and lyrics. Anyone talking wouldn't hear what to do next.

 

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Class 2: Saturday Songs

The other class we visited was Saturday Songs, taught by Danielle Miller. This class for threes and fours is focussed on rhythm, singing, and musical expression. After being called by name to sit in the circle, kids sing together, then each child gets to invent a four-beat clap/rest combination for everyone else to repeat. They learned the many ways beats and rests combine within a meter of music.

An important element to teach kids in preparation to learn an instrument is to repeat rhythms back and to create rhythms in real time while taking turns around the circle without losing the sense of the beat. They may be simply clapping their hands in this class, but the skills they are learning will be applied to future instrument classes, where they will have their own part and sound to contribute to a larger musical arrangement.

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With that in mind, the teacher took to the blackboard, showing the students how to write down the beats they were clapping to create written music notes using Chalk Talk, a way of notating rhythm and turning it into written music. Once they had the notes on the board, they were halfway to creating their own small song! The next step is to come up with a short sentence to fit to the beat. It was amazing to see kids so young participating in making original music this way. 

The third part of the class was dedicated to Dalcroze Eurhythmics, where children use their bodies to interpret music. The teacher plays the piano and the kids react by slowing down, speeding up, or changing direction based on the musical cues. Their feet paced around the room to the beat. Finally, they got to choose instruments and play along with the lead piano. 

Saturday Songs gives kids exposure to music that will prepare them to play an instrument or sing in a chorus. Interested in learning more? Those aren't the only two classes offered for that age range, so visit their website to view offerings for fall

Want to see for yourself? Hoff-Barthelson Music School is hosting an open house on June 8 from 10am to noon. Click here for more info.

That's it for this week! Don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram.

And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester. Just be sure to check the date you wish to attend against the library's calendar, because many programs are wrapping up for the school year. 

See you next time!

Andrea


 

 

Can We Tell You How To Get To Sesame Place? Tips Even Elmo Doesn't Know

Hi everyone!

The weather's heating up, and that means one thing: theme parks! But when your kids are very young, the options are limited. They don't have the stomachs for Six Flags, and who wants to go all out on Disney World when they won't remember it? Lucky for us there's a theme park less than two hours away that's a slam dunk for toddlers: Sesame Place!

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

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Located in Langhorne, Pennsylvania, this all-things-Muppet theme park is the perfect size and scale for toddlers. Part water park, part amusement park, and part theater, there's enough to keep them busy till nap time...and beyond! 

But like any other outing with little ones (or any advanced military operation), it's only fun if you've prepared for every (un)expected incident. We've got your cheat sheet right here to make it the perfect Sunny Day. Before you load up the sippy cups and strap into the car, read on for our tips on how to take on Sesame Place like your name is Elmo.

The first installment in our guide is about getting in. Tickets, passes, parking: there's a lot to know, and we've got tricks below. Then, click here for our second installment about how to be #winning once you get into the park. 

 

How to Get to Sesame Place 

 

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Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

Score Great Tickets

Sesame Place's face value ticket price at press time is $70 for a one day ticket and $85 for a 2-day pass, but think of this as simply a starting point. Keep in mind that everyone 2 and older will need a ticket, and there's no kids pricing.

If you get on the mailing list you'll be alerted to their frequent flash sales, and if you plan to visit more than 3 times a year, a season pass is worth it. 2-day passes are also a good deal because they don't have to be used on two consecutive days. If you buy one for today you can use the second day through the end of 2018. If you think you'll only go once this summer, Sesame Place is a great day trip in the fall or winter for Halloween, Thanksgiving, or Christmas. The water rides section of the park transforms into seasonal activities like hay rides, and additional midway rides are available that aren't around during the summer season. The cooler weather is a relief! Not worrying about overheating or sunburns is a wonderful thing.

Just make sure you research all the ticket choices because there are a lot of price points: single day weekday only, single day weekend, specific-date tickets, any day tickets, 1 and 2 day tickets. Tickets in the fall and winter can be as low as $20, so keep that in mind as you figure out when you want to use your 2-day tickets. You may want to use them earlier and then grab the cheaper tickets if you visit later in the year.

 

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Season Passes

We are a family of four than includes a child under two. At first we thought that means we'll need three season passes, but sometimes I take the kids midweek while my husband is working or sometimes he will take our oldest there alone for a daddy-daughter outing. So it made the most sense to buy only two season passes.

My daughter has her own pass at the cheapest level (called Sesame or Cookie Monster), and we have a Transferrable Pass, which is pretty awesome because it's at the same level as a Big Bird season pass (the one that includes the free parking! A savings of $20 a visit!) but unlike the other passes, you don't have to attach a name to it. The only stipulation is that the person using the pass has to be visiting with their "Host" season pass holder. Since I can't think of a scenario where my 3.5 year old would be at Sesame Place by herself, or someone would go without her, it's the perfect fit. (And hey, if anyone out there wants to take my kid to Sesame Place, they can use my transferrable pass for free!)

Season passes also have other perks like 25% off food and merchandise (makes the sting of a $3 water a little less intense). and special privileges such as meet and greets or advance seating at shows or on rides.

 

The Super Grover

The most souped-up pass of all is the Super Grover. It gets you free admission and parking at all SeaWorld and Busch Garden parks. As far as Sesame Place is concerned, the only additional features it offers above the Big Bird level is that you can get ride-again privileges and preferred parking (which is not much better than regular parking). Unless you are a regular at the other theme parks, this is not worth the extra $78 in price. Save your money and do the Cookie/Transferrable or Cookie/Big Bird combo.

 

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Want in? The best time to buy a season pass

There are two great times to buy a season pass. From November to March, season passes start at around $90 and if you buy for the year ahead, it includes all visits for the rest of the current calendar year.

Another great time to buy is around August, when the "Buy Next Year's Pass and Get the Rest of the Year On Us" sale is announced. It's a great deal because the water park is still open, and if you plan it right you can get 4 months of fun (maybe 6 visits?) for free and still have a pass for all of next year. That's almost 2 years for the price of one. If you wait till August the pass price will be higher. The price last August started at $113. But getting almost another whole yearly pass for $23 more than the lowest sale price is a great deal. 

But wait!! Do you have a teaching license?

Every October, Sesame Place opens a registration period for teachers in New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania and Delaware to get a free season pass for the next year. You register online, then bring your teaching certificate and an ID to pick up your pass in the park. It's only valid for the teacher's admission only. You don't have to be currently teaching as long as you have a teaching license. 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

Parking Hacks

Sesame Place has a general parking lot for $20 and a preferred parking lot for $25. But don't get nervous, this ain't Disney. Both of these lots are next to the park and set up in a way that you can park about 50 feet from the entrance if you're the first car in. I usually get to the park around opening time and I've never had a longer walk than 30 seconds to my car from the front gate, and that's in the general lot. You do not need "preferred" parking.  

If you decide to get a season pass, you're going to want one member to have more than the basic Cookie level so you can get free parking. Ideally you'd use a season pass 8-10 times, right? Based on that you'd pay $160-$200 just to park. The Big Bird pass is $42 more, so the parking pays for itself after about 2 visits. Also mentally it's a nice motivator to go. You'd be surprised what a deterrent it is to visit when you have to pay $20 just to leave your car. They don't check IDs at the gate, but they do scan the pass, so I don't think you could hand it to the car behind you, but you might be able to borrow a friend's season pass that has parking privileges.

 

Front Gate Discounts

There are some behind-the-scenes discounts only available in person at the front gate ticket booth. These discounts are off the base admission price, not the lowest discount available, so look around because you may find a better deal online:

• Pregnant women save 50% on the base ticket price.
• Seniors save 50% on the base ticket price.
• Active duty military members receive 1 complimentary visit for them and up to three direct dependents.
• Season Pass holders can purchase single-day guest tickets for 50% off the base price. 

So if you think you might be pregnant between now and 2019, you might want to hold off on getting a season pass. Grandpa and Grandma probably don't need them either. The only downside to these discounts is that the lines can be long and slow-moving. If you need to stop at the front gate for tickets, get to the park at least 15 minutes prior to opening to get in line. If the difference between an online deal and a front-gate-only deal is not a lot, say, $5, save yourself the hassle and buy online for immediate entry. It's not easy to tell a 3 year old they have to wait in line when they can see all the fun stuff happening just inside the gate. 

 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

Groupons

There's almost always a Groupon for entry. The one right now is $67 for two visits and a free meal at one of the visits. That's a great deal as the kids meals are about $10 with a drink and adult meals are $13 without a drink. The visits are good anytime before the end of the year.

 

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Abby's Magic Queue: The Fast Pass of Sesame Place

Like all amusement parks, Sesame Place has a Fast Pass system, but it's not always a good fit for toddlers. Our fickle toddler is constantly changing her mind about what rides she wants to go on, and which are too scary, so for us the Magic Queue wouldn't pay off. Luckily, unlike Disney or Universal, I've never seen the lines that long. Especially if you go early and head straight to your favorite rides. Perhaps the Magic Queue is a good idea for an older child who will be riding more independently while you hang back with your younger one? In that case, it's $16 to Fast Pass each ride once, and $32 for unlimited Fast Pass access all day long. They sell a limited amount of these, so once you decide to go for it, call or book online. 

 

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PhotoKey Unlimited Pictures Pass

Sesame Place also offers a PhotoKey Access Pass, where you'll receive every photo taken at character meet-and-greets. This $50 one-day pass (also available as a seasonlong photo pass) is a mixed bag. It can be a good deal if you're going alone with a few kids and won't be able to get your own pictures, or if you want to be IN the pictures without begging the people behind you to use your phone every time.

But for the pass to feel worth the price you actually have to get in front of the photographers, which means waiting in line at the character meet and great stations. Which can be torturous on a hot busy day. Also, we're not talking about Annie Leibowitz. We've noticed that the framing and quality of the photos are the same or worse as you would take yourself using your phone.

Buying photos a la carte is about $20 a pose, and with overstimulated kids trying to ham it up for the camera, I'd be surprised if you had more than two you wanted to bring home anyway. Skip the pass, use your phone, and take your chances on buying any photos taken that you fall in love with at the photo booth on your way out.

If you're not doing the pass you can take your own photos at the meet and greets. Remember to tell your kids to look at your phone, not the photographer's camera, or all your pictures will have eyes looking left or right. 

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

Sunny Day Guarantee: Free Return Tickets at Customer Service

The best deal in the park if it rains or rides are shut down for weather. The Sunny Day guarantee means if it rains continuously for one hour while a guest is in the park, Sesame Place will issue tickets valid for a return visit any operating day during the current operating season. The best part is unlike your admission tickets, there is no name attached to the Sunny Day tickets.

We were there one day last year and the rides got shut down because it was too windy. While it wasn't fun to literally peel a toddler off the carousel that they loaded us onto and then told us to get off, we marched over to the Welcome Center (you can also go to Guest Relations) and got three brand-new 1-day passes to use whenever and for whomever we like.

If you're not sure if your weather qualified for a Sunny Day replacement ticket, stop by anyway. Our friend saw a little bit of rain on her visit, and while she didn't qualify for Sunny Day replacements, she did get Fast Passes to use on rides. 

 

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Private Cabanas: How to book one without breaking the bank

You may have noticed blue tented areas all around the water park. Those are the private cabanas available for day rental. They may seem totally extravagant, but bear with us for a little math.

Let's say your original plan is to rent a hotel room near Sesame Place because you want the kids to have a nap or you think the day will be too taxing to drive home without a break. What if instead of the hotel, which, let's face it, will be annoying at best (and that's IF the kids fall asleep in the same room as you in their pack n plays at a reasonable hour while you stare open-eyed into the dark), you spend that money on a private cabana, chilled at the park allllllll day, then drove home at night and everyone gets to sleep in their own beds? 

The cabanas seat six, so if you're a family of 3 and you split it with a friend, suddenly the $250 total fee doesn't seem like so much after all. For $125 each, you and the other family would get a free beverage, a souvenir towel for each family member, and a large locker. Plus you'd have a 10' x 10' space that's all your own with a shaded, private, comfortable place to relax.

If you shell out for the most luxurious $400 cabana, you get an exclusive character meet and greet in the cabana area, a splash zone just for cabana guests that's always empty, unlimited beverages including milk and juice, concierge service, and one meal per person (in addition to the basic perks I just mentioned).

Oh, and if you're a season passholder, take an extra 25% off those prices! That's a sweet $100 off the luxury cabana! Or split the cheapest one with a friend for less than $100 each! 

Children's birthday parties can be upwards of $800 nowadays at those jump places. For half of that you could have an intimate family celebration at the park. I'm not suggesting you get one every time, but it wouldn't be the craziest thing to splurge once a year.

Note: This post has been updated for 2019. Click here to visit our most recent review.

I hope this has gotten you all revved up to experience the park for yourself! Click here for our next installment where we dish out our favorite tips once you get inside the gates. 

That's it for this week! Like what you're reading? Help keep the tips flowing by following us on Facebook or Instagram and signing up for our weekly emails at BabyGotChat.com. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester. Just be sure to check the date you wish to attend against the library's calendar, because many programs are wrapping up for the school year. 

See you next time!

Andrea


5 Baby Inventions You Need NOW - The New York Baby Show Report

This weekend marked one of our favorite events here at Baby Got Chat: The New York Baby Show! This huge event for new and expecting moms takes place on the west side of Manhattan and includes tons of kid-specific companies, large and small. It's the place you can go to try out every stroller on the market (literally! There's a test track with several different types of terrain), see what's new with some of your favorite baby brands, and learn about fantastic products and innovations from small businesses. This is the third year I've attended and it only gets better!

Read on for some of my favorite finds from this year's show.

 

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1. OXO Tot Space-Saving Vertical Drying Rack

I've been drying bottles for three and a half (!) years, and I have to say I'm kind of over my green "grass" drying rack. Sure, it's totally cute, but it takes up a lot of space and isn't the best solution for taller or bulkier bottles. Maybe it's time for a change? Enter the OXO Tot Vertical Drying Rack. Designed to handle bigger bottles for older kids, this system can get your whole assortment dry without taking up precious kitchen space. We can't wait to snag ours! 

 

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2. KidKusion Retractable Driveway Guard

It's finally bike season! What do you do when your driveway's a fantastic play zone, but the street just beyond is a hazard? Even if you explain the difference to your tiny riders, without some sort of boundary there's not much to stop your kids from zooming out or a mail truck from zooming in (damn you, Amazon!) while the kids are playing. Short of standing guard at the entrance to the street with a megaphone, what's a concerned mom to do? 

Send the message to kids and drivers with this Retractable Driveway Guard. Available in orange or black netting, simply drag the net across the end of the driveway to establish boundaries for kids and vehicles. The guard installs with stay-put stakes so the entire netting canister can be removed and put away when not in use. This product has Parenting Magazine's Mom Seal of Approval!

 

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3. Bibby

There are a million kinds of bibs out there, but they all have one thing in common: that wet spot that collects under the top edge of the fabric near baby's chest. Gross, smelly, and it can cause unhealthy milk rashes. Bibby bibs have a patented drip-catching design, like a rollneck shirt, that doesn't let those dribbles of milk get through. These bibs keep baby cleaner and prevent rashes, and they come in cute styles and are made of soft cotton (80%) and polyester. 

 

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4. Summer Infant My Bath Seat

Bathtime is so sweet when you have a newborn who just lays in that teensy infant insert tub, but it becomes much trickier once baby can roll over or sit up. They're too big for the insert, and too small to hang out in the baby tub or use the laundry basket trick without slipping down. Too bad there's not a Bumbo for the bathtub! But wait! Summer Infant has heard your cries. Their My Bath Seat tub insert anchors to three sides of your bathtub and provides a sturdy spot to plop them down and suds them up. Now you don't need to keep one paranoid hand on their shoulder, which makes for a more relaxing time for everyone.

 

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5. PRIMO LapBaby

I must have at least five different "travel" booster seats, and yet I can't count how many times I've been somewhere and needed to strap them in and found myself...well...strapped. Those plastic ones are great but they're too bulky to carry around just in case, and the fabric ones don't work with every type of chair. PRIMO realized this and had an epiphany: what if instead of worrying about which chair to strap a kiddie seat to, your lap was the seat? It's the perfect size, always there, and you know baby loves it.

This is the idea behind PRIMO LapBaby. It's an on-the-go beltstrap that allows baby to sit securely on your lap while you remain hands free. Perfect for when you didn't splurge for their own seat on the airplane or when you're out somewhere and there are no high chairs, or even when you need to get in some keyboard time on the couch. 

 

Those weren't the only fab finds. Here's a sprinkling of more cool stuff.

Category: CUTE! 

 

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Prince Lionheart Wheely Animals

These adorbs wooden ride ons made us squee with delight. They come in two sizes and several animal options. 

 

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Incredible Creatures Figurines from Safari Ltd.

Okay, maybe "cute" isn't the best description, but for kids who aren't into the whole fuzzy purple unicorn thing, these more true-to-life toys from Safari Ltd. are sold mostly in zoos and museums. But they're not all hyper-realistic. Check out the mom and baby Love Dragons!

 

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Luv Bug Company Products

These are made with a UPF 50 fabric that's absorbent, quick-drying, and breathable. You can find hooded towels, waterproof outdoor blankets, car seat covers, crib sheets, snack bags, and wet/dry bags. We love the Luv Bug Company patterns and the way they feel!

 

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The Mibblers

Au revoir, Sophie! The cool kids chew on these. These Nibbly Bits Teething Toys come in three colors and are 100% silicone. Clean them with a baby wipe or soapy water. 

 

Category: NEED! 

 

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Real Shades Sunglasses

Don't take your chances on the cheap stuff when you can protect their little eyes with these unbreakable frames in a flexible material. Available in five sizes from infant to adult, Real Shades have wraparound sun protection to protect from peripheral light, which has been found to be just as damaging as direct sunlight.  

 

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Bloom Alma Collection Cribs

This solid wood crib may not be portable like a pack-and-play, but it does fold down for easy storage in a small space. It comes almost fully assembled, has four mattress heights, and lockable castors. Many hotels stock these now, so the next time you stay over and need a crib, ask for it by name. 

 

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MediFrida

I covered this last year when it was just a prototype twinkle in Fridababy's eye. Now it's here to stay and it's still one of my favorite finds. A cross between a pacifier and a medicine dropper, MediFrida is meant to administer liquid medicine to baby in a way that doesn’t pass over their taste buds and cause them to spit it out. And it works alone as a pacifier so you can get them used to it before you start doling out the Motrin. 

 

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Baby Tripster

Why do alllllllll kids containers have to leak? I'm pretty sure milk leaks in my diaper bag are the only reason my daughter has heard and memorized swear words. Enter Baby Tripster, a snack container system that WILL NOT LEAK. It's got a built-in fork and double attached lid to keep food safe and clean. And it's dishwasher safe, because who has time to hand wash?

 

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Travel Tray

There are cupholders everywhere, but no place to dump some goldfish crackers so your kid can stop screaming for five minutes (amirite?). Travel Tray turns every cupholder into a food tray AND a cupholder in one. We're super excited to try it in the convertible car seat.

 

Hope you enjoyed these finds! If you missed the Baby Show, I'll have a fresh round of free tickets available next year. 

 

That's it for this week! Don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester. Just be sure to check the date you wish to attend against the library's calendar, because many programs are wrapping up for the school year. 

See you next time!

Andrea


 

 

 

Sensory-friendly Westchester

Hi everyone! 

Happy Mother's Day weekend! I hope you're reading this in a pedicure chair somewhere. Last month was National Autism Awareness Month, and it was so inspiring to see the leaps and bounds we've made in our sensitivity and adaptation to kids with varying needs. We've scoured the county (and beyond!) in search of sensory friendly activities. Here's our short list:

But first, are you coming to the New York Baby Show next weekend? Want to come for half price? We have a limited amount of tickets available for the first few lucky clickers. $10 buys you tons of free samples, seminars, giveaways, and trials! Click here to purchase.

 

SENSORY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES AROUND WESTCHESTER

 

Camp

Bounce U is now offering a 2-week Sensory Bounce Therapy Camp for kids with autism, ADHD, and children with any motor and/or social difficulties that interfere with their ability to function in their home or school environment. Camp runs during the third and fourth week of August. The sessions are planned and implemented by an Occupational Therapist with the goal to strengthen physical and social skills while providing a supportive environment for kids to have fun. Drop your child off and attend the free parent support group that runs concurrent to camp. Click here for more info.

 

Yoga

Yogashine in Valhalla is located near the Kensico Dam and has group and private yoga programs for special needs kids. They say, "Very often children's difficulties and/or limitations are manifest in their behavior and in their bodily expressions. Movement and creative play directly engages with their behavior, allows for immediate access to the problems, and provides tangible solutions. Parents are encouraged to participate when appropriate, and additional supportive services are available." Their special needs program is recommended for children with Autism Spectrum Disorders, ADHD, developmental disabilities, physical limitations, excessive aggression and depression. The summer schedule offers group yoga classes for kids with special needs on Mondays and Thursday from 4:15pm - 4:45pm. The 7-week program is $168. Click here for more info.

 

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Open Jump

Rockin Jump in Ridge Hill offers a Sensory Friendly Bounce on the first Wednesday of the month from 6pm to 8pm. $18 covers two hours of jump time without the crowds or sound of TVs for a child and caregiver. Click here for more info.

If you're in Northern Westchester or need weekend morning jump times, Rockin’ Jump in Mount Kisco has a similar deal, only from 8am to 10am on the first Sunday of the month. TV and music will be turned off. Two hours of jump for one jumper and one caregiver is only $15. Siblings are welcome to attend for an additional $10 each. Click here for more info.

Bounce U in Elmsford also offers a Sensory Bounce once a week on Wednesdays from 5:30 to 6:30pm. Click here for more info. 

 

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The Children's Museum

Stepping Stones Children's museum in Norwalk offers Accessibility Days to kids with all kids of special needs, including language and physical barriers. These free admission periods take place from 1:00pm – 5:00pm on the third Thursday of each month, with a sensory-friendly workshop called My Ability from 3:00 to 5:00. Kids can also come on Accessibility Day from 10:00am to 5:00 pm on the third Sunday of each month. Click here for more info.

 

Eating Out

Mickey Spillane's Pub in Eastchester has just announced a new Sensory Friendly Night. Taking place on Tuesday nights from 5:00 to 9:00pm in their secluded second floor indoor and outdoor space. It promises to be a quiet and tolerant spot to grab some dinner. Mickey's says, "We want every family to enjoy their dining experience, which is why here at Mickey Spillane's we will lower music, turn off TVs, turn up lights etc, which will make your dining experience more fun and less stress." Click here for more info.

 

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A Day at the Movies

Alamo has recently revamped their Baby Day movie showings into a "Sensory For All" format. These special movie times are open to all ages, including infants, and to accommodate the crowd, lights will be brighter, sound will be quieter, moving around and noise is permitted, and latecomers will be tolerated. One BabyGotChat reader has taken her child and they both had a great time. She brings a portable high chair so she only has to buy one seat. You can also wheel your stroller for use as a movie seat for the little ones. Sensory For All happens on Tuesdays during the first show of the day for each movie playing. Click here for more info.  

Regal Cinemas offer a My Way Matinee, which is a sensory-friendly showing where the lights are brighter and the sound is softer, but the New Roc City location is not on the list of participating locations (!).

AMC Loews in Port Chester has partnered with the Autism Society to offer a Sensory Friendly Film program, available on the second and fourth Saturday (family-friendly) and Tuesday evenings (mature audiences) of every month. Click here for more info. 

 

Private Programs

The following programs offer occupational therapies for scheduled therapy sessions. Kidabilities in Hawthorne provides evaluations as well as occupational, physical, and speech therapy for kids. Just Play Gyms in Larchmont and Pleasantville has sensory gyms and one-on-one therapy sessions for children. 

 

Beyond Westchester: Head to Sesame Place!

Sesame Place in Langhorne, PA has recently become a Certified Autism Center, meaning that their team members receive training sensory awareness and other issues. While the entire experience of the amusement park might not be sensory friendly to every child, they have worked to develop a IBCCES Sensory Guide which provides insight on how a child with sensory processing issues may be affected by each sense for rides and attractions. You can enroll your child in the Ride Accessibility Special Access Program which allows them priority access on rides, and download their Ride Accessibility Guide

Guides with sensory needs are also encourage to check out two new Quiet Rooms installed in the park, or borrow Noise-Cancelling Headphones, available at The Family Care Center or Welcome Center.

There's also a new mascot, Julia, a "curious 4-year-old with autism." Julia made her debut in the park last season, and on TV Elmo and friends learn about how Julie does things, “in a Julia sort of way.” Julie is around the park for character meet and greats, but keep in mind she does stay true to character the entire time. We went with two over-eager 3 year olds and were held back from taking a picture with Julia because the kids were too ramped up. Julia's handler made sure we were calm and approached her gently and without too much noise. If kids are noisy, Julia and her handler move to a corner to wait it out till everyone calms down.

If you have a child who is too young to modify their behavior in a stimulating setting, you may want to focus on the other Sesame Street friends, but with a little pep talk, most kids will be just fine taking a photo. Meeting Julia at Sesame Place is a great way for kids to learn about empathy and how their behavior can affect others. Click here for more info. 

 

That's it for this week! Don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester. Just be sure to check the date you wish to attend against the library's calendar, because many programs are wrapping up for the school year. 

See you next time!

Andrea


How to find the perfect camp

Hi everyone!

Since my oldest just turned 3, this is the first year I've had to deal with that 4-letter word: CAMP! If you thought there were a lot of daycares in Westchester... or if you thought there were a lot of preschools in Westchester... just do a search for camps and it makes everything else look puny in comparison. So. Many. Choices. So how are you supposed to find the perfect camp for your LO? 

HOW TO WIN THE GREAT CAMP SEARCH

1. Pick a category

Your search will be a lot easier if you narrow down what you want. Which of the following are you looking for?

  • sprawling camp grounds

  • swim lessons mandatory

  • town camp

  • full days vs mornings only

  • consecutive weeks or pick-and-choose?

  • theme camp

  • transportation included

 

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THE BIG GUYS

If you know you want your child to have a big, traditional camp experience, then you're going to want to tour the Big Guys like Camp Hillard, Mount Tom Day Camp, Purchase Day Camp, Mohawk Day Camp, or Kiwi Country Day Camp. Lots of them have open houses or host other events on property. (Mohawk Day Camp is hosting the Westchester Children's Book Festival on Sunday, May 6 from 10am to 3pm.) These larger camps tend to have swimming and/or water play at least once a day and tons of other traditional camp activities. Some of them include transportation that's either door-to-door or from pickup spots around the county. Kiwi Country Day Camp has pickup points in Pleasantville, Bedford, and Chappaqua, among others. These camps are gorgeous, but you get what you pay for. These camps tend to cost up to $1500 per week, and many have extras such as hot lunch, transportation or supplemental swim lessons.

 

THE LITTLE GUYS

You don't need triple-digit acreage to have a great time at camp. There are several smaller camps (we'll call them Little Guys) that have everything a big camp is offering, but on a smaller scale (and with a smaller price tag). Ann & Andy in Elmsford offers indoor and outdoor play, water play and bikes, along with sports and an area for resting inside. They do bussing to activities like swim and bowling, and even have a lunch program. ESF Camps operates out of Riverdale Country School in the Bronx or Greenwich Academy in Connecticut. The Little Guys are often more accommodating to a flexible schedule. At Ann & Andy, you pick which weeks, which days of the week, and even which 8 hours of the day (or less if part time), you'd like to attend, and everything is priced from your selections.  

 

TOWN CAMPS

If you want to take a trip back in time to the land web design forgot, search for your local town's website. (And once you get there, take a moment to marvel the archaic look: ooh, jewel tones! Underlined links in a sidebar! A table!) Then find the Parks and Recreation homepage. From there, you'll find a PDF called something like "Summer Programs 18".

You might be surprised how many activities are actually on that PDF. My town does a Zumba program? Wait, I can pick up a free recycling bin? These programs can be hard to find, but the secret's out: town camps are cheap and convenient. Most don't offer options like swim, but the price is right. Town camps are about $100 a week. Don't like your town's offerings? Many towns, such as Yonkers, offer non-resident fees for camp, so shop around. It might be worth the extra $30.

 

THEME CAMPS

Theme camps are great for slightly older kids who know what they like and aren't afraid to tell you. Any activity you can enroll in during the school year you can find a camp for in the summer. Theatre, ballet, circus arts, any sport, STEM activities, foreign languages, you name it! If you only have a few weeks this summer for your child to attend camp, the thematic approach is a great way to make the most of a small amount of time and ensure that when your child arrives in August, they aren't entering a social circle where friendships were made on the first day of camp in June. However, that specialized training comes at a cost. Discover Camp in Hawthorne runs about $700 a week for a full day program of STEM camp.

 

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MOMMY & ME CAMP

They're never too young for camp! At World Cup Nursery School in Chappaqua, you and your toddler can attend Prep Camp, a program for 17 to 29 month olds. This camp runs in the mornings and includes outdoor water time, open gym time, and nursery school-type activities. It's a great way to introduce young ones to the social world of school. The Bronx Zoo also offers Toddler Camp, a 1-hour program for kids ages 2-3 with a caregiver that is $150 a week.

 

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CAMPS ARE EVERYWHERE

Short of, say, Trader Joe's, if you go there with your kids, you'll probably find a camp there during the summer. The Little Gym? Camp! Bounce U? Camp! The Bronx Zoo? Camp! Even Lil Chameleon has unveiled a summer camp program with activities and outdoor play. These camps run $200-$250 a week. Many of these camps offer last-minute drop in options depending on availability, so they are a great choice for parents who aren't really sure what they will need just yet. At The Little Gym, you can purchase summer camp days now and specify which dates you will be applying them to later (depending on availability). This is perfect for when you don't have your summer plans on lock yet, but you know they include 10 days of camp thrown in here and there.

 

SLEEPAWAY CAMPS

Ha! Just kidding! Our kids are too young for that. A mom can dream, though, right?

 

2. Enlist (free!) help

NEED MORE HELP?

Been through all these options and STILL not sure what you want? Enter Susan Pecker, a camp advisor at Camp Connection. The Camp Connection has been helping parents at no cost for over 30 years. They represent over 600 summer programs, meeting directors and visiting every camp. Though they specialize in sleepaway programs for children ages 8-18, they have tons of experience with local day camps for children ages 3 - 8 years old. We asked Susan some questions that come up for a first-time camp shopper:

 

What's the most important thing to keep in mind when choosing a camp? 

When choosing a camp, a parent needs to take a two-pronged approach: What does the parent want? And what is the parent’s objective in sending their child to camp? What is the budget? How long do they want their child to attend? 

Also, consider their child: What activities does my child like? Would a big or small camp be better for my child’s personality?

 

Are there deals to be had? Or do you think more money buys a better camp experience?

The higher the tuition can reflect a lot such as the physical infrastructure a camp has, the breadth and depth of programming, the age and layers of staff. Yet there are camps that are non-profits (or lower tuition) that may suit families just fine.

 

What's the best kind of camp for kids ages 3-6?

The best camp for the younger child offers short days, mature staff and age-appropriate activities and facilities, such as basketball courts with low hoops and pools that are shallow enough for instruction and recreation.

Want to receive free personalized camp recommendations? Email Susan at susan@thecampconnection.com. 

 

3. Make your list

TL, DR: JUST TELL ME WHERE THE CAMPS ARE! 

Okay, okay, fellow blogger and author Lori Fettner has been researching camps for her Irvington-based 4 year old, and has graciously agreed to share the results of her findings. This list below is just the tip of the iceberg of available camps, so use it at as head start into your camp search. 

Lori says:

I’ve managed 4 years without sending my daughter to camp. We’ve had a great time being outdoors, checking out every park, playground, and library, and even working our way through pre-k workbooks. Last summer, it got a little hard toward the end. So this year it’s camp, camp, CAMP!

I’ve signed my daughter up for a 5-week camp that covers the month of July, and now I’m looking into shorter camps to fill the weeks before and after. Here’s my list of 10 places to check out.


Bounce U, Elmsford
Create and bounce art camp
Monday through Thursday 9am - 3pm, ages 4 and up.

$199 per child, $169 siblings of same week. Click here to see the themes for each week.


Central Park Dance, Scarsdale
Dance camp
Monday though Friday, ages 4 to 18

Ages 4-5: 10:30am-1:00pm, $275 per week
July 9-13 Frozen, July 23-27 Moana, August 6-10 Trolls, August 20-24 Aladdin

Ages 6-8: 10:30am-3:30pm, $475 per week 

Ages 9-12: 10:30am-3:30pm, $475 per week 

Ages 13-18: 10:30am-4:30pm, $625 per week

Click here for more info.


Kids in Sports, Scarsdale
Individual and multi-sport camp
Monday through Friday

Single day camps from 9am-12:30pm. For ages 3-7 these are multi-sport camps, which may also include art, storytime, etc.

Click here for more info.


Scribble Art, Dobbs Ferry
Art camp
Monday through Friday

Ages 3-4: 9:00am -1:00pm $450 per week

Grades K-4: 9:00-3:00 day, $600 per week.

Discount available when signing up for multiple weeks. Click here for more info.


Lil Chameleon, Tuckahoe
Indoor/outdoor activities and crafts
Monday through Friday, 10:00am-12:30pm, ages 3-6

$250 per week.

Click here for more info and a schedule.


Bronx Zoo, Bronx
Zoo exploration, games, classroom learning
Monday through Friday, 9am-3pm, $400 per week

Many options for themes, depending on age of child, starting as young as entering pre-k. After care available. Click here for more info.


Teatown Lake Preserve, Ossining
Hikes, sensory activities, animal encounters
Monday through Friday, 9am-12pm or 3pm, 2-week camps, ages 4-14

$435 per two-week session, half day, $760 per two-week session, full day

Click here for more info.


Greenburgh Nature Center, Scarsdale
Outdoor exploration, crafts, and care of the animal residents
Monday through Friday

Half-day camps (Grades K-1 & 2-3) are $350 per week.
Full-day camps (Grades 4-5) are $450 per week.

Membership is required to register for camp. Click here for more info.


The Play Place, Elmsford
Various themes
Monday through Friday, 9:00am-4:30pm, ages 4-8, $325 per week.

Several different camp options, including multi-sport, karate, or dance. Click here for more info.


House of Sports, Ardsley
Soccer, Basketball, & Lacrosse
Monday through Friday, 9:00am-4:00pm, K-2nd grade, $425 per week.

Soccer and Basketball are full day programs, lacrosse is half day. Lunch and extended day available. Click here for more info.

 

Lori Fettner is the author of 4 books: Teaching to the Child, Welcome to Motherhood (A gift book for new moms), No Place Like Earth (A picture book for kids who love space and parents who love Earth), and What Do You Do with a Doodleloo. Visit LoriFettner.com for more information.


That's it for this week! Now, go find a camp! And if you still need a Mother's Day gift, be sure to check out our Westchester-centric Mother's Day gift ideas

And don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea

 

 

The Best Mother's Day Gifts for Westchester Wonder Women

Hi moms!

We've been working hard all year for it... May 13 is Christmas for Moms! ... Well, for some of us, it feels more like Arbor Day (when's that again?) or Labor Day (you get a day off from the normal routine, but instead—let's do this even harder full day with the kids!) It doesn't have to be like that this year, but you're going to have to stop hinting and start explaining exactly what you'd like. 

Uh oh! Not sure what you want? See below for some ideas!

But first, we have the winner of our Family Four Pack of tickets to LEGOLAND. Congratulations, Susanna R! Didn't win? You can still get something free: Shake, Rattle & Roll music is offering a free trial class for new families. This multicultural music program for young ones meets in six locations: Pelham, Bronxville, Larchmont, New Rochelle, Scarsdale, and Riverdale. Try a class during the next two weeks and enjoy singing, dancing, instrument play, musical fun and learning! Send an email to susan@shakerattleandrollmusic.com to reserve a spot.

 

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Mother's Day Gift Ideas - Westchester Edition

 

A Day Off From the Kids

Don't laugh, it's every mother's oh-so-ironic dream! And it can be done! I have a friend who has successfully managed to book a hotel room in the county for a quick night alone with spa treatment, dinner out, and a dip in the pool. For less than a Broadway show this can be yours! The Tarrytown Estates has a heated pool and a restaurant. There's no spa, but a masseuse will come in by appointment and there are massage rooms by the pool. Rooms are below $200 a night.

Doral Arrowwood is also under $200 and has restaurants, pools, fitness equipment, and saunas. And if you want to be blown away there's Castle Hotel & Spa in Tarrytown, which is gorgeous and has lots of spa treatments and delicious food, but that is closer to $300 a night.

 

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Jewelry

There are tons of sentimental gifts you can order with birthstones, names, or little baby animals to represent your brood. Origami Owl has some cute stuff. Lisa Leonard designs also does amazing work. Auburn Jewelry is a local company that specializes in charms. 

 

A Meal Out

Just make sure all high chairs are on the other side of the table so you can get a break from feeding the Human French Fry Machine. There are plenty of fantastic restaurants to dine at. If you can't quite score reservations at Blue Hill at Stone Barns, there are still plenty of notable restaurants like Moderne Barn, Red Hat on the River, Rye Grill and Bar, or you can get creative (AND budget friendly) and visit one of Westchester Magazine's Best Burgers By Every Town. Or pizza, Chinese, or whatever theme rocks your boat. 

 

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Photos and Crafts

Who doesn't love a canvas print from Shutterfly? Or a pillow with your kid's artwork on it? The Pieced Palette is a local company that can make custom pillows and gifts. You can also take the little ones out locally to make something for mom. Fun Craft allows walk-ins, but suggests you call in advance on the weekends. If your little one is old enough, you can sign up for the Mommy & Me painting class at Painting With A Twist in Scarsdale. You paint one half and they paint the other. At Muse Paintbar in Ridge Hill, you can make a personalized "family nest" painting with your last name or a baby and mama animal silhouette painting..

 

 

A Day Off From Her Diet

With all of Westchester's fantastic bakeries at our fingertips, finding a sweet treat won't be hard. Locally, you can head to Martine's, Topps, Baked By Susan, or Lulu's Bake Shop for baked goods. Chocolations in Tuckahoe has custom chocolate treats, or there's Fully Dipped custom chocolate covered decorated Oreos. If she's got her eye on a specific treat she craves from Manhattan, odds are you can get it at the Grand Central Market. Grab your lightest stroller and make your way to the platform for a quick city day trip to get the bread/cheese/dessert of her dreams! 

 

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Tickets!

Yes, there's every Broadway show in Manhattan, but you don't have to leave the 914 for some pretty good seats. Westchester Broadway Theatre is showing Sister Act, and they have a deal with GotItLocal.com, where you can get 2 seats for about $90. That includes dinner and a show for 2! Beat that, TKTS booth! There's also a trip to the Botanical Garden, or music at Tarrytown Music Hall or the Capitol Theatre in Port Chester. At Rye Playland on Mother's Day, moms ride free and everyone else gets $15 admission.

LEGOLAND Ridge Hill is  hosting a Moms Go Free Weekend on May 12 and 13. Moms will be treated to free admission with the purchase of a child ticket. The “Moms Go Free” offer may be redeemed online using promo code 181008 and is valid for one free one-day adult ticket with the purchase of a full-price one-day child ticket to be used on May 12 or 13. The offer is also valid on walk-up tickets with the coupon (either printed or displayed on smart phone). 

I hope this helps you find the perfect gift! That's it for this week. Don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea


Come for the drama, stay for the support! The best and worst Facebook mom groups

Hi everyone!

I want you to lean into your screen a little because we are gonna dish on the always-entertaining topic of Facebook mom groups. I don't know about you, but these groups keep me tapping that app long past what is socially acceptable. We could discuss those notorious national groups like Sanctimommies all day, but let's keep it in the 914 and get the lowdown on the best and worst Facebook mom groups in Westchester. No holds barred...

 

The Big One

We all know this one. It's "She Who Shall Not Be Named (no kidding)". The mother of all Westchester mothering groups. It's where you go when you want to find swim lesson recommendations (AGAIN? Does no one search the archives first?) or a roofer, or ask which doctor in West Med is the best. But it's also one of the most strictly run.

Started out by the wonderful Melissa Krochek of Westchester NY Moms, this is the white pages of local groups. Which is awesome. But with 11,000 members, the drama can build fast and furious, and since it's run more like The Machine, several people have reported being blocked from the group for what they say are minor, non-blockworthy offenses. The philosophy seems to be, "If you don't like it, start your own group." Which brings us to...

 

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BAD Moms of Westchester

This group started as a refuge for castoffs who were kicked out of The Big One. BAD Moms is unapologetically ... well ... unapologetic. This is the group where you can post things like "OMG I hate my kid right now" and no one is gonna dog pile on you with "How dare you! Children are a blessing!" What you'll most likely get is "OMG me too!" and a bunch of silly GIFs of people drinking wine.

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BAD Moms was started by Alessandra Suarez, a SAHM of 2, just six months ago. She felt like so many mom groups were run by middle school bullies. There had to be other moms like her and she wanted to find them. She was right—the group has quickly ballooned to more than 3,000 members. Despite its size, it feels more like a group text with your besties. BAD Moms maintains its hundreds of daily posts and comments with little to no drama.

Alessandra loves that there are the OG regulars who help shape the tone of the group, and the newbies who come in and exclaim, "I love this place!" A series of Paul Rudd GIFs will typically follow.

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It's been such a hit that founder Alessandra has started a weekly giveaway contest for beloved readers, partnering with local companies. This forgiving group won't kick you out unless you get judgey, so save the "I would never!"s for the other mom groups.

 

Want to be a BAD Mom? Baby Got Chat has teamed up with the BMWs (don't call us BMs!) on these exclusive tee shirts! I'll be wearing mine everywhere I go, so if you see me in it, give me a shoutout. Show your Westchester mommy love and snatch one up in this first round of group orders. The deadline is Monday to reserve your shirt. Click here to order.

 

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The Exclusive Ones

You know, the ones you can't get into? Some of them require you to live in the town they represent, and nearby isn't good enough. I won't single out a Westchester group, but in the New Canaan, CT moms group, they ask you to list your address and have a current member vouch for you to get in. With such an exclusive circle, these groups can feel a little too close for comfort. How can you complain about your neighbor leaving trash out when your neighbor’s a member too? Or do you want to risk engaging in a Facebook debate about sleep training with people you actually see every day?

 

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The Hyper Local Ones

These groups focus on micro neighborhoods (I belong to one tailored to my two-mile subset of Yonkers) and are more like community bulletin boards. I love these groups because you can ask “What’s that noise outside?” and immediately get 6 responses explaining why there are helicopters at 10pm. But these aren’t really the places to vent about the frustrations of child raising or share that funny video you just saw. Keep it closer to church parking lot conversation and you’ll be golden.  

 

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The Moms AND Dads Ones

I'm sorry but I HATE the way dads act in Facebook groups. Almost every group I'm in with dads in them are more grouchy and argument-laden. The dads come off as crabby and don't have that perfect finesse of passive-aggressiveness that us moms use when discussing a potentially contentious topic. We moms don’t say things like “If you don’t like it you don’t have to live here.” Or “Why do my tax dollars have to pay for your school walkout?” EYEROLL. Go back to your striped La-Z-Boy, Grandpa. It just goes to show that despite our drama, we moms are tolerant of differing opinions. Maybe that's why there's no Facebook dad-only groups!

There's one group with moms and dads that isn’t full of long-winded debates. Westchester, NY Parents is more of a bulletin board and less of a complaint department. They are more forgiving about solicitation than other sites, especially on Tell Us Tuesday, so if you have a business it's a good place to get the word out. This page was started by another mom who was frustrated that The Big One didn't allow local bloggers to post about topics of interest to us moms. We believe mom blogs are like TV shows: you can enjoy one without it being the ONLY one you watch, because they're all so different. If you have a blog, please come to Westchester, NY Parents and tell us about it! I help admin so I will see it and make sure it gets out there.

 

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The Tag Sale Groups

These are great places to find gently used stuff in good condition, and the people seem more like, well, actual people than the posters on Craigslist. Plus, like the mom discussion groups, there are tag sale groups for the whole county or just for particular towns, so you don't have to drive too far to pick up your items. There are also themes like Baby/Child so you can narrow down your search.

But be warned these groups are only as good as the moderator who runs them. I've learned that the more the moderator talks about "no drama" in their rules, the more drama there's likely to be. In one group I listed something and got so many "just a note..." messages from the moderator that it was easier to leave the group and post somewhere else. Duds aside, all in all they're a solid resource when you're in the market for fantastic deals. 

And what's a greater deal than free? There's an awesome page called Pay It Forward -- Lower Westchester where you can be a do-gooder and post things you would like to give away. Our friend Jenny Plaff, who also hosts the Etsy page Mommy's Timeout Spot, is the gracious admin. You can score furniture, formula coupons, and even brand-new Play Doh! 

I hope that's given you some insight to some of the groups out there you can join. Maybe I'll see you on one of these soon! 

 

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That's it for this week! Don't forget about our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea


Mom drinks directory: Join us at these upcoming events!

Hi everyone! 

Let's talk about one of my favorite topics: mom drinks! Sure, they usually start after bedtime, and sure, we mostly talk about and share pictures of our kids, but for a few short hours we get to put on a fresh shirt, leave the house, and relax with like-minded women who understand why You. Need. This. And because, as fun as our old buddies are, no mom should have to suffer through a kidless friend exclaim, "Yeah, I've been tired too lately." Um nooooooo.

There are a lot of opportunities to meet up with old friends or make new ones in the next month. And if you haven't met the BabyGotChat mom crew, we're a bunch of awesomely real, awesomely fun, awesomely friendly moms and we'd love to add you to our group. So mark your calendars!

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Mommy Drink Night
Growlers Beer Bistro, Tuckahoe
Thursday, April 12, 8pm


Join the Bronxville Moms Meetup group at Growlers in Tuckahoe for drinks and conversation. If you can't make this one, join the group on Meetup.com for access to upcoming drink nights and other daytime events.


Moms Networking Night with open bar
Lil Chameleon & Tuck'd Away, Tuckahoe
Friday, April 13, 8pm

From Lil Chameleon's owner, CC Benitez:

Women, let’s be honest: we have a fairly tough gig. And moms deserve an extra gold star for having to choose to keep working or stop working or change the way you work completely to accommodate the new human that needs you 24/7.

So what are you up to as of today? Are you looking for something new? Did you just start a new gig and want to share it with others? Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a working mom, or you started a business and you’re looking for help, Lil Chameleon is hosting a networking event just for you.

Run by a mom who’s on a mission to meet and connect others, Lil Chameleon opens it’s doors to all women (mom or not) Friday April 13 at 8pm so you can introduce yourself, socialize, share your business, and talk with others about theirs. It’s a no pressure, no-hard-sell type of event. You can share what you know best: yourself, your passions, your business, your kindred spirit.

Networking starts at Lil Chameleon from 8-9pm. Then we’ll head a few steps down the street to Tuck’d Away for an open bar from 9-11pm including all beer (craft, too), wine and well drinks. Not drinking? Contact us for a discounted rate.

Register here to reserve your spot.

This event looks so fun! And it runs in collaboration with a Vendor Night on May 4th at Lil Chameleon. Interested in selling something? Register for the April 13th networking night and table fees are waived for the May 4 event.


Moms Night Out: Vendor Night
Lil Chameleon & Tuck'd Away, Tuckahoe
Friday, May 4, 8pm


Join us to celebrate local mompreneurs! Peruse tables of crafts, jewelry, bottled wine & other gifts. Learn about new businesses in the area and how these super-moms do it all. The perfect place to buy a Mother's Day gift! We'll then head a few steps down the street for a 2 hr open bar. All beer (craft, too), wine and well drinks included. Not drinking? Contact us for a discounted rate. Advanced registration required.

Click here to reserve your spot


We hope you can make it to one of these awesome events! If daytime is more your thing, there's always our weekly Mommy Meetup at Lil Chameleon from 10:30am to noon most Mondays. 

See you next time!

Andrea

Let's get outside! The best spring events for families

Hi everyone! Spring has sprung, okay, maybe not, but it's finally above 40! Let's celebrate by getting out of the house and heading to some awesome spring events happening between now and June!

 

COLONIAL FAIR

April 14
Thomas Paine Cottage Museum, New Rochelle
10:00am - 5:00pm

The Colonial Fair returns to the Thomas Paine Cottage Museum. Experience a  Blacksmith, a Fiddle Player and Storyteller, a 19th century Schoolmarm in the One-room Schoolhouse, Candle Dipping, Colonial Soldiers and more. As an added bonus this year, the Mamaroneck Artists Guild will be joining us on the south lawn for a sale of art and fine craft. Rain date April 15.

Admission is $5 for adults, $3 for children. 

Click here for more info.


BE GREEN CONSIGNMENT SALE

April 20–22
Purchase, NY

This is my favorite of the large consignment sales! You get access to baby stuff that's deeply discounted, curated, already tried-and-tested (the stuff that breaks would never make it to a second life), and—what might be the best part—fully assembled! It takes place at the gymnasium at SUNY Purchase. It’s a bit tricky to find, and parking close by can be difficult, but once you’re in, it’s smooth sailing. It's free to attend, you’ll line up outside, and when it’s your turn to enter you’ll be handed an IKEA bag to use as you shop. The aisles can be crowded, so I typically wear my baby when I go to help me zip around faster. There is tons of stuff on sale from strollers to small furniture items to bedding to clothes, books, and gently used toys. Everything is clean, wrapped in plastic when possible, and well-labeled. The prices seemed to be about 30-50% of full retail price. Most items are used but there are some new-in-box finds. There is no haggling, so if you aren’t prepared to pay the price tag, you might want to leave it for someone else. Most of the people working the event are volunteer moms, and they are friendly and helpful. Items are organized in rows by type, and boys’ and girls’ items are mixed together, except for clothes and shoes, which are separated by gender for easy perusal. I’ve never participated as a seller, but from what I’ve read, part of the money from each sale goes to the original consignor, so you’re directly helping other local moms in addition to getting a bargain. All sales are final, so arrive knowing the exact name of the thing you are looking for, or you might end up with a car seat base that doesn’t fit your car seat. 

I registered for the new moms’ presale event, and I got there right when it opened at 6pm. There was almost no line to get in, and the crowds were reasonable. They had a corralled off area for anything large you picked out, so you don’t have to drag a crib around the gym with you while you shop for other items. The line to check out wasn’t too bad, and checkout was fast and easy, cash or credit was the same price. There are always great finds and the setup is such that it’s fun to shop.  The only tricky thing about this location is that it’s a long walk to get from the entrance to the car, so if you plan on buying something large, bring backup to help you take it out of the building and through the parking lot. On the last day of the sale, many items are 50% off. 

Click here for more info. 


GREEN OSSINING'S 8TH ANNUAL EARTH DAY FESTIVAL

April 21
Louis Engel Waterfront Park
10:00am - 5:00pm

This community-run Earth Day celebration is dedicated to help keep Ossining beautiful and learn about living a more sustainable life. Expect 4000 visitors, 100 vendors, hands-on activities and educational opportunities, including a kids' activity zone, live music and entertainment. Free. Food available for purchase.

Click here for more info.


WORLD CUP SCHOOLS OPEN HOUSE

April 21
World Cup Gymnastics, Chappaqua
12:30pm - 2:30pm

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Come With Me and You'll Be in a World of Pure Imagination! The two hour event will be Willy Wonka themed, so please be ready to explore our wonderful factory! It's fun for the whole family, as you'll see demonstrations by some of our Team Gymnasts, and you'll have free time to rotate around the gym and try out some different stations and apparatuses. On the Nursery School side there will be food, snacks, tattoos, food projects, arts and crafts, and more! Featuring Adam from ANIMALOONS balloon twisting!

Click here for more info.


TARRYTOWN ROTARY CLUB RUBBER DUCKY DERBY DAY & TARRYTOWN YMCA HEALTHY KIDS DAY

April 28
Patriot's Park
11:00am - 3:00pm

This fundraising event began in 2008. For as little as $10 you can sponsor a rubber ducky as they race down the Andres Brook to win a grand prize of $1500. Once we agreed to this crazy idea we had to find a place to race! The event runs in collaboration with the YMCA's Healthy Kids Day. There are rides for young children, a climbing wall, live music, food for sale from around the world, and myriad booths offering crafts, activities and information about healthy living in our community.  Admission is free, but a rides bracelet that offers unlimited access to all kiddy rides, the climbing wall and the carnival games, is $10. Whether one is watching the duck races, following our costumed ducks around, having their children partake in the YMCA’s events, getting some food or listening to music, there is definitely something for everyone. Free admission. Races start at 11:15am.

Click here for more info.


STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL

April 29
College of New Rochelle, Main Campus
12:00pm - 5:00pm

The College of New Rochelle celebrates its 46th annual Strawberry Festival. Enjoy free admission, our live DJ, dance performances, and vendor fair. Tickets required for fun attractions, games, and inflatables for the children. Strawberry- and carnival-themed food will be available for purchase. All are welcome to attend.

Click here for more info.


CRAFTS AT LYNDHURST

May 4-6
Tarrytown
10:00pm - 5:00pm (6:00pm Saturday)

Crafts at Lyndhurst showcases over 275 modern American makers, artists, designers and craftspeople from across the country selling their exciting contemporary creations and is a celebration of all things handmade. A full day art and shopping experience for the entire family including interactive kids activities, delicious gourmet foods and concessions, hands-on demonstrations and more. Event takes place under tents. Rain or shine. No pets allowed within the show site. Adults $12; seniors $11; kids 6-16 $4, under 6 free. Tickets are on sale on-site on the day of the event. Cash or check only. Click here for a $1 off coupon.

Click here for more info.


THE NEW YORK BABY SHOW

May 19 & 20
Pier 94, New York City
10:00am - 4:00pm

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The 2018 New York Baby Show will once again be the largest show for new and expectant parents in the country. This family friendly event has top brand vendors, speakers and seminars, giveaways, and lots of learning, support, bonding, and fun as you make your way into parenthood. We've been attending for a few years now and had a great time getting free samples (check out my swag pile!), scoping out the latest in baby gear, attending lectures, and experiencing other fun activities such as a stroller test track and sterilizing chamber. Want more info? Click here for our review of the 2017 show and click here for our review of the 2016 show.

Don't forget we are giving away free tickets to the 2018 New York Baby Show! The normal ticket price is $30 per family (for 2 adults and up to 4 children), and $20 per individual, but if you're one of the first 10 to click the link, it's yours for free! CLICK HERE FOR FREE TICKETS

Click here for more info.


FESTA ITALIANA

June 1-3
Saint Anthony of Padua RC Church, West Harrison
Fri 6:00pm - midnight; Sat 5:00pm - midnight; Sun 2:00pm - 10:00am

A traditional Italian festival with raffles, midway rides, games, food, and more. Free admission.

Click here for more info.


THE WHITE PLAINS OUTDOOR ARTS FESTIVAL

June 2-3
Tibbets Park
10:00am - 5:00pm

This festival has been bringing the arts to White Plains for more than 55 years. Paintings, photography, ceramics, glasswork, jewelry, textiles, and much more are all on display. The festival is a great place to experience art and shop for one-of-a-kind gifts, jewelry, and home décor. The event also features emerging artists, the artwork of our scholarship winners, a free children’s art workshop, and unique food vendors. Free admission.

Click here for more info.


THE FOL-DE-ROL FESTIVAL

June 7-10
Wampus Brook Park, Armonk

The Fol-De-Rol (French for foolishness) has been an annual fun-filled weekend of rides, pet and car parade, games, craft and food vendors, continuous entertainment, animals, and much more. The fair opens with a parade which includes dignitaries, members of the lions club, antique cars, and community representatives, fire and police officers, and NC-4 members. The four day fair includes amusement rides, games, food vendors, craft vendors, live music, Byram Hills School District band ensemble performances, as well as continuous entertainment. Free admission.

Click here for more info.

 

That's it for this week! For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea


The Law's No Joke: Don't Be An April Fool About Child Safety

Hi everyone!

Happy Easter and Passover! We had our DIY backyard egg hunt yesterday and it was a blast! Now I have to run to the store tomorrow and scoop up half priced eggs for next year. It's April Fool's Day, but instead of a fun prank post, let's be serious and talk safety. I'm in all the Facebook mom groups (well, except Scarsdale Moms—my zip code doesn't qualify!) and the topic of Free-Range Parenting is going around.

Well-meaning curious moms are always asking, When can I turn their car seat around? Can I leave a middle-schooler alone in the car? Can I install a secret nanny cam? As you can imagine, all hell breaks loose in the comments, but, opinions aside, what's the law say?  We did some research and below are the New York State laws on some common mom questions. (BUT if you want to live above the law, check out our list of 10 Safety Mistakes Moms Make.)

But first, don't forget we are giving away free tickets to the 2018 New York Baby Show on May 19 & 20 at Pier 94! This will once again be the largest show for new and expectant parents in the country. The normal ticket price is $30 per family (for 2 adults and up to 4 children), and $20 per individual, but if you're one of the first 10 to click the link, it's yours for free! CLICK HERE FOR FREE TICKETS

 

Child Safety Laws in New York State 

 

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When can I turn the car seat forward? 

This is the most popular safety post on mom groups. It takes many forms: My kid is uncomfortable, or their legs are bent, or they're throwing up, or just mysteriously crying and maybe turning them is the answer. A debate ensues but there IS a legal answer, listed below, that works until November 1, 2019, but then the law in New York State is changing. Though it is legal to turn them before they achieve that crucial vertebrae bone fusing that starts at age 3 and takes until age 6 to become strong like an adult's, we at BGC recommend keeping them rear-facing as long as possible. If you think they are sad because they hate rear facing, first try to adjust the car seat, make sure their clothes or the belts aren't digging into them, give them some fun toys to hold in the car, try a musical headrest mirror to distract them, and make sure the ceiling vent isn't blowing hot or cold air on them and making them uncomfortable. There may be something else going on that you didn't think of.

CURRENT NYS CAR SEAT LAW

  • Any child younger than 4 must ride in a federally approved child safety seat that's properly secured by a safety belt or a universal child restraint anchorage system.
  • All children younger than 8 years old must be secured in a child safety seat restraint system. This includes safety seats, harness vests and booster seats attached via safety belts.
  • Any child younger than 4, but who weighs more than 40 pounds, may be secured in a booster seat with a lap and shoulder belt.
  • If all safety seats are occupied, a child who would normally require a booster seat should instead be secured by a lap belt.
  • Every rider younger than 16 must use a seat belt.

TAKING EFFECT NOVEMBER 1, 2019

  • No person shall operate a motor vehicle unless: all back seat passengers under the age of 4 are restrained in the proper seat, which shall be rear-facing whenever the passenger being restrained is under the age of 2 except in the event that the weight or height of such passenger under the age of two exceeds the occupant size and weight recommendations of the manufacturer of such rear-facing seat, such seat may be forward-facing.

Source 1 and Source 2

And in case you're wondering, the law applies to taxis and Ubers. Just not buses: Public transportation buses are exempt from the occupant restraint law. However, children under the age of 4 must be restrained in a federally approved car seat while riding on a school bus [Section 1229-c(11). As of November 1, 2017, the law applies to taxi and livery drivers. There's no New York law that defines a minimum age to ride in the front seat, but the age in most states that make this determination is 12 years old.

 

When can I leave my kids alone?

There's no official age, but New York State suggests you start considering being able to leave your child home alone at 12 years old, based on the child. They offer a checklist:

  • How mature is the child?
  • Does the child know how and when to contact emergency help?
  • Is the child able to prepare food for him/herself?
  • Are there hazards to the child in the environment such as accessible knives, power tools, a stove or oven?

There's no age for being alone in the car either, but socially it's considered a big no-no, and people will call the cops. And by law Neglect is considered "Failure to exercise a minimum degree of care in providing a child under 18 with proper supervision or guardianship" and Endangerment is "Acts in a way likely to be injurious to the physical, mental or moral welfare of a child younger than 17."

In short it's a gray area, especially if the weather is hot or cold, People's opinions land on both sides of this issue, but I think a fair point is if enough time has elapsed that the cops have shown up, it's definitely been too long. Connecticut's alone-in-car law is a child under 12, so again, 12 seems to be the magic number. 

Source

 

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Can I Install a secret nanny cam?

Who doesn't want to know what's going on when the nanny or babysitter (or even Grandpa!) is watching the kids? Especially when toddlers reach their "story stage", they might tell you something happened with a babysitter that might not be true, and you wouldn't want to act on misinformation. Besides being nosy and a bit (okay, a lot...) shady, what's the law on nanny cams? It varies from state to state, but in New York the the law is listed below.  

  • You have the right to install and use hidden surveillance cameras in your home.
  • You cannot install nanny cams in the bathroom used by the nanny or in the nanny's private room if it is a live-in employment situation.
  • Nanny cams must be used for reasonable purposes, e.g., making sure that an infant or child is being properly cared for. An employer could run into legal barriers if he or she has installed secret videotaping devices for a commercial enterprise, to share private matters publicly or for purposes of voyeurism. 

So, put in your nanny cam, but if you see shit going down, don't post the video to Facebook or other public viewing sites. A lot of caregivers have said they are completely against them and wouldn't want to work in a household with one. So if you don't want to risk a breach of trust, the cool thing would be to inform them about them from the start and see how that conversation goes. 

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Got a question about a law not listed above? Send us an email or comment and we'll add it to the list. This article was based on research from New York State public information about laws, so please do your own research to make sure the laws haven't changed before you act on any of this information.

That's it for this week! For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea

Create a Baby-Friendly Backyard Egg Hunt in 4 Easy Steps

Hi everyone!

Easter is just around the corner, and if you've got kids that are just a bit too young for those cutthroat town hunts, what about hosting a backyard egg hunt yourself? We put one together every year and it's our favorite party to throw, as it's easy to prep for, doesn't require a ton of decorating, and since it's outdoors, cleanup is simple. If you make it an annual event, you'll be able to reuse most of your supplies each year. Read on for tips on how to host your own awesome backyard egg hunt.

 

But first, 10 lucky (and eager) readers will get free tickets to the New York Baby Show coming to the west side of Manhattan this May. It's a great way to test out strollers, high chairs, baby carriers and other gear, learn about new products, and even get some free swag from your favorite local and national brands.

The 2018 New York Baby Show, on May 19 & 20 at Pier 94 will once again be the largest show for new and expectant parents in the country. Now in its 8th year, no other event provides a better experience for thousands of expectant and new families seeking a family-friendly jamboree of top brands, great speakers and seminars, big giveaways, and lots of learning, support, bonding, and fun as you make your way into parenthood. We are giving away tickets for you and your family to experience the show. The normal ticket price is $30 per family (for 2 adults and up to 4 children), and $20 per individual, but if you're one of the first 10 to click the link below, it's yours for free! Have at it!

CLICK HERE FOR FREE TICKETS

 

And to get you excited for all the cool brands you'll see at the baby show, our friends at Reviews.com have compiled a list of the best high chairs of 2018. They've assembled, smooshed food into, and cleaned dozens of high chairs so you don't have to. Click here for their 2018 roundup. You may be able to check out some of these in person at the Baby Show.

 

How to Host Your Own Egg Hunt

 

1. Get the supplies

I go egg shopping on Easter Monday when all the unsold eggs hit the clearance rack. If you don't want to prepare that far in advance, Oriental Trading and Party City have great deals on eggs.

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You can ask kids to bring their own baskets, but I like to provide them with my own small baskets (smaller baskets also means that one older kid won't collect 40 eggs before the little ones can even cross the lawn). I use these baskets, which hold about 10 eggs. Once kids fill them up, they move on to opening them and leave the rest of the eggs for the other hunters. Which brings us to:

2. Stuff the eggs

Finding suitable egg stuffers for toddlers is tricky. Since everything you give them fits into a plastic egg, you are basically hosting a choking hazards party. I've managed to find toys and food that are fun and will work for all but the most determined of object-swallowers:

Brightly colored cereal
Fruit snacks
Popcorn or puffs
Stickers
Bracelets
Rings
Finger Puppets
Toy Paratroopers
Plastic Toys

It's not really about what's inside, at least not at this age. Kids just love collecting the eggs, so budget your money towards buying more eggs than towards high-priced fillers. Oriental Trading has some great deals that will give you a lot of prizes for the money. I got 72 bracelets for $6, and if you buy a giant bag of Malt-O-Meal Berry Crunch for about $4, you can stuff dozens of eggs. (sure, it won't be individually wrapped, but since you're with friends, you don't have to worry about hermetically sealing everything inside the eggs).

I forego the whole "golden egg" element for this age group. They don't really understand the difference or that they should be looking for the special egg first, and the rest of them won't be happy when only one child gets a big prize. 

 

3. Send out the invitations

I invite everyone about three weeks before via email, and I pick a rain date just in case there's a washout (or in the case of this year, six inches of snow on the ground!). I like to begin the hunt in the morning, when kids are less cranky and energy is high. I invite every toddler I know, and older sibs can come too. I just make sure the parents know it's geared toward the little ones, so their older sibs shouldn't pick up all the eggs in thirty seconds, even though they probably could.

This party is truly "the more the merrier". I just make sure to stock up on those smaller baskets so I have more than enough for everyone. It's helpful to know who is coming so that you don't start the hunt early in case someone runs late (a perk you don't get at those town hunts!). I send out an email the night before asking to text me if they are running late so I can hold the hunt for them.

 

4. Start the hunt!

I lay out the eggs in the backyard, hiding a few in foliage but keeping most in plain sight. You don't need to clear the area. In fact toys and furniture legs have great hiding spots for eggs. I try not to put eggs anywhere I don't want kids going (like that small spot behind the bushes), because if one child finds an egg there they'll all be wedging themselves in.

After all the eggs are in place, we gather at a spot where there's no access to the yard (for us it's our deck), and wait for everyone to arrive before we open the gates. I take the opportunity to find any older siblings and explain that their job is to find all the really hidden eggs in the back and let the babies pick up the easy lawn eggs. 

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We set out bagels, muffins, donut holes and juice, though we've found that a starting time of 10am doesn't require a ton of food (we've all been up since 6, right?). We open up the yard and the kids go load their baskets. After all the eggs have been found (which takes a while with toddlers), they have a blast in the yard playing with toys or discovering what's inside their eggs.

We even managed to borrow an Easter Bunny costume for a quick visit from Mr. Rabbit himself! Left to themselves in the yard, little ones will play until the naptime tantrums overcome them. Our last partier left around 12:30pm last year. We provide goody bags to hold the treats and treasures, and a lot of hunters even left behind their eggs and baskets for us to reuse at our next hunt. At my last hunt I put out 200 eggs and at the end of the party I found almost a hundred pillaged eggshells for next year.

It's that simple! This is a great annual party to have as it doesn't require many decorations, is easy to prep for, and you'll have supplies left over that you can reuse next year.

And even if you host your own hunt, you can still join plenty of these local egg huntshappening around the county. Click here for our list of local hunts and events.

If staying inside is more your style, head to Scarsdale this weekend for a FREE concert at Hoff-Barthelson Music School on Sunday, March 25 at 2pm. There will be music, light refreshments, and the chance to get up close and personal with the instruments. Click here or see below for more information.

That's it for this week! For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea


How my most moving Mom Moment happened on a kidfree cruise

Hi everyone!

I'm back from a 6-day kidfree vacation that involved New Orleans, Cozumel, a cruise ship, and a dozen amazing bands. Needless to say, I'm rested. Getting away from the kids requires the logistics of a FEMA disaster-relief operation, but once you iron out dropoffs and diapers, the rest is smooth sailing. Of course you'll miss them, but living our old DINK life, even if just for a few days, was liberating. The best part is, when I got back, my patience meter for kid shenanigans was reset. Bring it on, refuse-to-get-in-my-car-seat!

But, like any time without your kids, you can't help but look around and see ... kids! And they're so cute when you're not the one in charge of them. We oohed and awwed our way through the airport, the hotel, and the cruise ship. And my attention kept drawing back to one family in particular: two parents, a brother, and a son in a wheelchair. The son was an indeterminable age, but he had the sense of wonder and excitement of a teenager. His face looked a bit older, but his frame was diminutive due to cerebral palsy. Come to find out, Korey is 27 and his health challenges stem from growth problems in the womb. Faced with a pregnancy where one twin was healthy and one stopped growing, his mother made the brave decision to take both twins out early in an attempt to save Korey, even though it meant Kyle's health could be jeopardized. Korey was born weighing less than 2 pounds. He has cerebral palsy and can't speak, communicating through a computer. Kyle thrived in the NICU and grew up without complications.

Not that I knew his story or even his name at the time. We referred to him on the cruise affectionately as Bubble Boy. Because everywhere he went a trail of bubbles followed him like a permanent Gymboree class. And, just like kids during bubble time at Gymboree, everyone around him immediately became ... joyful. Their faces lit up. They wanted to be a part of his world. And my husband and I couldn't stop thinking: Those parents rigged a bubble machine to his wheelchair. And not just any bubble machine, the most hardcore, badass million-bubble bubble machine money can buy. That's love, we thought. 

As a parent, when you see a kid with a disability, you can't help thinking What if that was my child? What would I do? We worry our entire pregnancy that the baby inside is going to be okay. We're not even sure what the word okay means, maybe just a feeling that everything is going to be all right. We may even breathe a selfish sigh of relief that we don't have those kinds of hurdles in our child-raising, but for many of us there's also a tinge of jealousy, because the rewards of raising a child who is so happy and who is living beyond their developmental challenges are so great. I've heard from moms of kids with disabilities that it's the most rewarding thing that's ever happened to them. 

And this was clearly the case for this family. Korey rode around the ship blaring music and blasting bubbles with a smile on his face. The other cruisegoers fell in love with him. Our 3000-member Facebook group had more posts about run-ins with Korey than they had about run-ins with Pat Monahan of Train, Michael Franti or any of the other artists that we paid to see. He was magical and he touched everyone in his wake. He attended almost every concert and came dressed to the nines each theme night.

But the pinnacle moment for me was at one of the last concerts on the cruise, when singer Michael Franti invited kids up on stage to dance during the last song. A row of 8-to-13 year olds were jamming, and all of a sudden from the far left side of the stage we hear a small thump as Korey is rolled onto the stage. His parents clamber up, and his father picks him up from under his arms and holds him while jumping up and down so Korey can experience dancing too. And they stay onstage for several joyous minutes until the concert ends. 

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I was floored. These parents care so damn much. I was ashamed of myself for being such a lazy mom in comparison. Here they are flying with, cruising with, running around with a child in a wheelchair, and not only that, helping him have the coolest wheelchair ever so when strangers see him, they think "How awesome!" and not "How sad." They sail to the (literal) ends of the earth so he can have the same experiences as the rest of us. I grumble when I lug my 3 year old onto the changing table, and here they are hauling an adult child onto a 4-foot stage so he can dance like everyone else. My eyes couldn't stay dry. 

I realized that I need to step up my game. Sure, I'm tired, I'm worn out, but I need to reach deeper into that parental drive to nurture my kids to the fullest. Korey believes he can do anything--he just does it differently, and he's right. He didn't get that attitude sitting around at home feeling sorry for himself. But when you're like me and you have kids who don't have physical restraints, the path to a full life isn't as clear. Since they can already do everything easily, it's up to you to help them find their passions and lead them. 

Photo courtesy of Korey Soderman

Photo courtesy of Korey Soderman

If you'd like to learn more about Korey and the charity his family started to help differently-abled people thrive in a social environment and enjoy concerts and sporting events, click here. 

Or if you're looking for a cause to help out locally, Balanced Life Christian Center in Mount Vernon is sponsoring a mission to Nigeria and is seeking volunteers and donations of the household medical supplies listed in the poster below. If you would like to help out, reach out to Shella Gifford at 914-863-4456.

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Thanks for reading this more serious post. Their story moved me and I hope it's moved you too. Now, on to lighter topics:

Want to win a family four pack of tickets to LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester? Follow us on Instagram and Facebook, then fill out this form by March 18th. Good luck!

And join us for a BabyGotChat drinks night Tuesday, March 20 at City Perch in Dobbs Ferry! We're taking it to the river towns and taking advantage of ladies night drink specials. We'll be there between 8pm and 10pm, and we'd love to see you! 

And don't forget it's (egg) hunting season! Click here for our list of local hunts and events.

Our Mommy & Me Meetup still meets most Mondays at Lil Chameleon. Join us this Monday between 10:30am and noon. $5 cash at the door or register in advance. 

And mark your calendars for a FREE concert from Hoff-Barthelson Music School on Sunday, March 25 at 2pm. There will be music, light refreshments, and the chance to get up close and personal with the instruments. Click here or see below for more information.

That's it for this week! For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea


 

 

 

 

 

Saint Patrick's Day fun THIS WEEKEND + win tickets to Legoland!

Hi everyone!

Who doesn't love a parade? It may not be Magic Kingdom or Macy's, but several Westchester towns pull out all the stops for Saint Patrick's Day. Read on to who's marching and where to line up. 

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But first, have you been to LEGOLAND recently? LEGOLAND Discovery Center in Ridge Hill, Yonkers just opened LEGO City Builder. This free play build area includes skyscrapers, police and fire stations, cafes, suburban streets, beaches, a LEGO® Friends section and more. Want to win a family four pack of tickets to LEGOLAND? Follow us on Instagram and Facebook, then fill out this form by March 18th. Good luck!

And join us for a BabyGotChat drinks night Tuesday, March 20 at City Perch in Dobbs Ferry! We're taking it to the river towns and taking advantage of ladies night drink specials. We'll be there between 8pm and 10pm, and we'd love to see you! 

 

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WESTCHESTER SAINT PATRICK'S DAY PARADES

White Plains Saint Patrick's Day Parade

Saturday, March 10 at 12pm
Starting at Mamaroneck Avenue and Livingston Avenue with over 26 musical performances, 5 floats and 90 participating groups. This parade can have many a little too into the 'spirit' of drinking so advice has been to stand further down away from the bars. Click here for more info.

 

Mount Kisco Saint Patrick's Day Parade

Saturday, March 10 at 2pm
The march begins at Main Street. Click here for more info.

 

Peekskill Saint Patrick's Day Parade

Saturday, March 10 at 3pm
The parade is held rain or shine. The parade steps off near Assumption Church, makes its way down Union Avenue, then right on South Street, left on Division Street, right on Main Street and right on James Street. The reviewing stand is on the corner of James and Park Streets. Click here for more info.

 

Sleepy Hollow/Tarrytown Saint Patrick's Day Parade 

Sunday, March 11 at 1:30pm
The parade kicks off on Main Street in Tarrytown, heads north on Broadway, and concludes around 3:00pm on Beekman Ave. in Sleepy Hollow. Click here for more info.

 

Buchanan Saint Patrick's Day Parade 

Sunday, March 11 at 2pm
The march begins at Burke Court, down Tate Avenue, around to Westchester and ending at the Pavilion. A great time to be had by all! Click here for more info.

 

Eastchester Saint Patrick's Day Parade

Sunday, March 11 at 3pm
The parade starts at the Immaculate Conception School and proceeds north on Main Street, Eastchester. At the White Plains Road intersection, it continues north on White Plains Road to Lake Isle Country Club. Click here for more info.

 

Mamaroneck's Sound Shore St. Patrick's Day Parade

Sunday, March 18 at 1:30pm
The march begins at Mamaroneck Avenue. 

 

Yonkers Saint Patrick's Day Parade 

Saturday, March 24 at 1pm
The march begins at Hyatt and McLean Avenue. Click here for more info.

 

If a parade seems like too much excitement, there are also some great Saint Patrick's themed events happening at a library near you. Here's a small sample:

Bronxville Public Library
Thursday, March 15, 4-4:45pm
Saint Patrick's Day craft. Click here for more info.

Crestwood Library, Will & Riverfront Library, Yonkers
Friday, March 16, 3:30-4:45pm
Saint Patrick's Day Story & Craft. Click here for more info.
 

That's it for this week! For our (almost always free) Event of the Day, follow us on Facebook or Instagram. And as always, check our website for events and our easy-to-navigate chart of every weekly kids library program in Westchester.

See you next time!

Andrea